Should You Register for a Cookware Set or Individual Items?

Our expert advice takes the guesswork out of stocking your kitchen with pots and pans.

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Choosing cookware for your wedding registry is fun, but it's safe to say it can also be daunting. One of the toughest decisions brides-and-grooms-to-be (and virtually anyone who's stocking a kitchen, for that matter) face? Deciding whether to register for a cookware set or individual items. While the route you decide to go ultimately boils down to what approach makes the most sense for you and your preferences, there are several factors to keep in mind.

Of course, knowledge is power. "Innovation and technology continually bring new products to market. Do your research, talk to friends, and do not rush into your cookware decision," says Rhonda Stewart, MA, CEPC, CHE, senior instructor at Johnson & Wales University's Charlotte, North Carolina campus. Ahead, professionals break down compelling reasons for Team Cookware and Team Standalone.

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The Case for Cookware Sets

If you're thinking of registering for a cookware set, there are several reasons to go this route:

You're Moving Into a New Home Together

Setting up shop as newlyweds? If you lived separately and/or aren't big cooks, a cookware set can help you elevate your culinary skills and make the transition into your new space seamless. "Getting a cookware set is great if you are building a new kitchen set-up from scratch, and you need all the essentials," says Ann Ziata, chef-instructor of the Health-Supportive Culinary Arts at the Institute of Culinary Education.

"By choosing a cookware set, based on criteria of construction, functionality, design, clean-up ease, and budget, you then have a matching set with the consistent performance," echoes Stewart.

You might also be saving yourself some precious time, a veritable boon during the hectic period of wedding planning. "Buying a full set of cookware takes a lot less thought than buying individual items," says chef David Crinieri, creative culinary director of Tuscan Brands and dean of their Scuola Culinaria. Opting for a cookware set means you are putting your faith in the producer, that they are selling you everything that you need. "You don't have to ponder over which pans you do or don't need or what pan material is best for sauces, braising, etc.," he adds.

You Love Being Organized

There's just something about having all your pots and pans match. "A cookware set creates a cohesive, organized kitchen aesthetic, which is perfect for those who want to cultivate a calm and peaceful kitchen environment," says Ziata. "By registering for a cookware set, you can get all the matching pieces in one purchase," notes Stewart. That means your presentation will have a nice, uniform look if you bring pans to the table when you entertain or if you have an open kitchen. Beyond the aesthetics, some people simply prefer doing the majority of their cooking in the same brand of saucepans, skillets, pots, and the like, and using the same type of cookware (stainless steel, nonstick, etc.), since you'll know cooking times and temperatures more consistently across products from the same maker and materials.

Novice cooks might find cookware sets particularly handy. "If you're new to cooking or exploring new ways of cooking, you may not even know what style of pots and pans you will end up finding the most useful," notes Ken Rubin, chief culinary officer at leading online cooking school Rouxbe. "Having a complete set lets you explore a bit, try different things to see how they feel, and otherwise helps take the guesswork out of which items you'll use most and which will collect dust in the back of a cabinet."

They Are Built to Last

Quality cookware sets are tested by manufacturers and put through the ringer to ensure they maintain their function for years, and even decades to come. "Although expensive, this may meet the price point of some of your wedding gift-givers," said Stewart, highlighting that traditionally, wedding gifts are substantial offerings intended to last a lifetime, symbolic of the marital ties that now bind you. "There are few other kitchen essentials that will have the longevity of cookware."

Speaking of lasting for many years to come, a cookware collection is something couples will return to time and time again, especially if they like to entertain. "Having a complete set on hand is useful for celebratory meals, holiday time, or when you're having people over for dinner and you need some extra capacity to help feed a larger than usual crowd," said Rubin. "Many pans can serve multiple purposes, like using a sauté pan to roast root vegetables or simmering a small batch of grains or polenta in a saucepan."

A Set Usually Offers Cost Savings

This factor is likely most relevant if you're buying your own cookware versus registering for it, but worth keeping in mind nevertheless as wedding guests sometimes go in for gifts together and their dollar may stretch farther if they settle on a cookware set over individual items. "An entire cookware set will be less expensive than buying all of the same items in that set individually," says recipe developer Brian Theis, author of The Infinite Feast: How to Host the Ones You Love. "Providing you find a set of cookware made up of items you know you will surely use (not always an easy task) there will be savings for whomever gifts you the set from your registry."

The Case for Registering for Individual Items

Though a practical choice for some, cookware sets aren't always the best for every couples needs. Here's a look at why you might choose to select individual items over bundled sets.

More Flexibility

"By registering for individual items, you'll have more control over the exact cookware pieces you need for your lifestyle," said Ziata. "There will be no excess clutter of an extra-large pot that never gets used in your tiny apartment, for example." Along with more shelf space, you'll avoid getting duplicates of cookware items you may already have like a nonstick skillet or stock pot.

Some of the Elements of a Cookware Set May Be Superfluous

Speaking of kitchen clutter and keeping a small cooking space organized, Stewart cautions that although sets provide consistency, you may not need all the pieces. "Depending on your choice of cuisine, many folks can complete all of their meal prep with a bare minimum of a 3-quart sauce pot, 6-quart stock pot, and a skillet," says Stewart. (If you enjoy braising and making stews, consider adding an enameled cast-iron Dutch oven, great for dishes that begin their cooking on the stove top but then are finished in the oven, she notes.)

It Might Not Include All You Want

As mentioned above, registering for individual items means you won't wind up with things that get used only once or twice a year—if that. "Even though there's a dollar savings to be had for a set versus individual items, it's rare that you will actually want or will really use every item in the average cookware set," says Theis. What's more? Cookware sets aren't a one-size-fits-all solution. They are "made up of pots and pans and are rarely going to include your dream Dutch oven or other unique standalone cookware items like baking or casserole dishes," notes Theis.

Stewart notes that, "An entire set can be quite costly, so breaking it into smaller units can better meet the price point of some of your budget-minded gift-givers." Also, "by choosing individual items, you may be able to get exactly what you want," she says. "Having a large costly item such as an entire cookware set may intimidate gift-givers, and you could end up not receiving a key component of your kitchen."

You Can Focus on the Best Selections

Not all cookware is made alike. "The brand which makes the best sauté pan might be different from the brand which makes the best stock pot," says Ziata. "Choosing individual items allows every cookware item to have a very specific and intentional purpose in your kitchen." Of course, you might have aesthetic concerns, too. If you know you like serving dinner à la skillet at the table, you might opt for, say, one brand that makes a stylish, high-quality ceramic cooking pan in a color you like for presentation's sake, while you go for a different company's stainless steel sauce and stock pots.

"I feel the biggest pro to buying individual pans is that you can pick the right pan for the job," echoes Crinieri. "I like to use an array of different pan materials, shapes, and sizes so that I can get the optimal outcome for whatever I may be cooking," he says. For instance, he prefers copper (or copper-lined) pans for sauces, cast iron for high-heat searing, non-stick for eggs, and stainless steel for general sauté use.

Whatever You Choose, Hone in On Technique

"No matter what type of cookware you get, or if you receive a complete set or not, the best way to make use of your new pots and pans is to learn technique and the underpinnings of how different cooking methods, like searing, simmering, roasting, and poaching impact how ingredients are transformed with heat," says Rubin. "With practice, you'll quickly begin to apply these skills and ensure that you enjoy putting your cookware selections to good use and maximize their utility."

Here's our helpful landing page for cooking how-tos and techniques if you need a primer on basics or want to brush up on your skills.

One Final Note

Whether you decide to register or purchase a cookware set or individual items, taking proper care of your pots and pans is essential. (Check out our guide to caring for your enameled cast iron, cast iron, nonstick, and stainless steel pots and pans here.) "For every different type of cookware material there is a different way to clean and store it," says Crinieri. "Good cookware is not cheap. Protect your investment and and get the best longevity out of it that you can."

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