Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Summer Weddings A Flower-Filled Indian Wedding in New Jersey with the Dreamiest Botanical Motifs By Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland Blythe is a freelance writer for MarthaStewart.com. Editorial Guidelines Published on October 20, 2021 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Michelle Lange Photography Though Sakshi Karambelkar met Matthew (who goes by Matt) Feddersen at the very beginning of college—he was the Resident Advisor for her freshman dorm and they were both studying engineering—they remained just friends for two years before they started dating. In May 2019, after Matt proposed on the beach in La Jolla, California, the pair chose a wedding date for the following spring. As their plans changed and changed again due to COVID-19, they postponed the wedding twice—finally tying the knot in an outdoor Indian ceremony followed by an indoor handfasting ritual on August 3, 2021, at Park Chateau in New Brunswick, New Jersey, in front of 125 fully vaccinated guests. For Sakshi, a stationery designer and papermaker, the hardest part of planning the wedding became choosing from so many beautiful options. "I had a vision in my head since we got engaged in 2019, but it was nearly impossible to see it come to life on my own," she says. "After having worked in the industry, it was really easy to want the best of the best since I see so many beautiful weddings on a daily basis. But really narrowing in on what would be meaningful to us was difficult." However, she had no trouble defining her aesthetic: "Flowers! Flowers everywhere." As for the paper? Sakshi designed the couple's invitation suite and paper goods through her stationery company, Inquisited. "My favorite part!" she says. An invitation written in Marathi, the bride's first language, was printed with reverse-letterpress on cotton cardstock. "The border of the invite was printed with a dusty peach-mauve, and the negative space created a winding floral pattern that was raised with beautiful texture," says the bride. "The Mehendi and Sangeet card was a soft beige-blush paper that appeared in many other parts of our stationery design for the day. It was also printed in gold foil and featured a foxglove motif in the corner." The paper's motifs reappeared throughout the big day which was—as you are about to discover—a botanical dream filled with cultural meaning. 01 of 25 Thoughtfully Handmade Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi used her own handcrafted paper for the English invitation, which included a design of foxgloves and roses circling the couple's monogram, and a hand-calligraphed, digitized font for the couple's names. The bride's friend at Floraison Design created a custom painting of the venue's gazebo covered with flowers, which Sakshi used at the top of the detail card: "It was a sneak peek into what the day would look like for the guests," she says. "The entire suite was then tucked into a custom pocketfold that featured an artwork that truly represented what I wanted the day to feel like—a colorful, yet serene garden. The pocketfold was wrapped in a thin botanically dyed silk ribbon and finished with an oval garden key wax seal." The pocketfold art also lined the envelopes, which Sakshi calligraphed and finished with vintage stamps. "We had our favorite horticulture stamp, as well as an Audobon stamp that captured my love of ornithology, and a foxglove stamp that represented that recurring motif of that flower through our wedding," she says. "Our most special stamp was the vintage William Harnett stamp, which had stacks of books and musical sheets. Matt and I are both big readers, and we are constantly trading books off to one another. The musical sheets represented Matt's love of piano and classical music." 20 Pretty Envelope Liners That Dressed Up Wedding Invitations 02 of 25 Red Alert Michelle Lange Photography For the first event of the day, the couple's Indian ceremony, Sakshi wore a custom lehenga from Nazranaa. "I had fallen in love with one of their designs which had a beautiful vining pattern on the top piece and very intricate metalwork embroidery," she says. "The team helped me pick out a deep red velvet and then customize the specific colors of the metalwork and beading so that the final piece was the beautiful red that I wanted and the beadwork and metalwork was a nod to the peaches and colorful florals of the rest of the wedding design." 03 of 25 Keeping to Tradition Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi's uncle led her down the aisle toward the floral-covered mandap that overlooked the property's lake. Cream-colored draperies, custom pillows, and opulent accents surrounded the couple as they moved through a traditional Marathi ceremony, "which is representative of the specific region and culture my parents and I come from," says Sakshi. "The Marathi ceremony starts with the meeting of the two families, and the giving away of the bride. After that, there were many recitations that had their individual importance." 04 of 25 A Family Affair Michelle Lange Photography The couple's mothers and fathers all participated in the wedding. "A lot of the Indian ceremony was super involved, and even Matt's parents had their share of involvement," says Sakshi. "The majority of the ceremony all has to do with wisdom being bestowed onto the couple and us making promises to each other that we will always take care of each other, and be true friends throughout life." 25 Creative Wedding Rituals That Symbolize Unity 05 of 25 Petals Everywhere Michelle Lange Photography Matt and Sakshi were showered with petals as they made their way back up the aisle. 06 of 25 A Pop of Color Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi and Matt asked their attendants to wear the same outfit for both the Indian and Western ceremonies, but accented their attire with coordinating sashes for the first part of the day. "I wanted a way for my red attire to work cohesively with the rest of the wedding palette, and adding these sashes and seeing it work so well was incredibly satisfying," says Sakshi. "Since the bridespeople were so colorful, we decided to keep it classic with the groomsmen—they wore black suits and looked incredibly dapper when we added those red sashes." 07 of 25 Take Two Michelle Lange Photography After the Indian ceremony, guests sipped cocktails and nibbled passed hors d'oeuvres while Sakshi and Matt changed into their second looks and shared their first look on the chapel steps. "I didn't expect to get emotional, but Matt did, and seeing him being so happy to see me—even though we had just seen each other in a different outfit and gotten married—made me feel loved and ready to get married for a second time that day," says Sakshi. She wore a custom wedding dress with a double layered skirt and floral lace accents altered to perfection by Belle Atelier, while Matt donned a slim-cut black tuxedo from Men's Wearhouse and Czech coin cuff links. "His mother's family immigrated from the Czech Republic and we wanted to represent that heritage in some way," says Sakshi. "It was also fun that we were able to find coins that were issued in 1993—the year of his birth." 08 of 25 Flower Girl Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi wore her hair in loose waves, pulled back with a custom headpiece from Erin Rhyne. "This was my absolute favorite accessory," says the bride. "She made it in the peachy, mauve and lavender tones that I wanted throughout the wedding. We also decided to add gold blackberries to the headpiece, which in a small way represented the new life we were about to start in the Pacific Northwest, [which] is practically covered in blackberries. She also made me matching floral pins that I wore in my loose braid for the Indian ceremony, and I was able to share some pins with my bridesmaids and my mother and mother-in-law. It became a special keepsake that we all wore and it was so fun to see it in my bridesmaids' hair whenever I was with them." 28 Modern Hair Accessories for Your Wedding Day 09 of 25 A Rare Find Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi asked Blue Pansy Floral to create a bouquet of her favorite flowers: "She used foxglove, dahlias, garden roses, sweet peas, cosmos, lisianthus, scabious, and zinnias in the perfect peachy creams, mauves, and lavenders," she says. "She worked so hard to make sure she could get her hands on foxglove for me, and every time I saw one throughout the day, I was extremely thankful for her commitment to bringing in those special blooms." 10 of 25 Something Blue Shoes Michelle Lange Photography Something Bleu shoes added a whimsical touch of color to Sakshi's second look. 11 of 25 Garden Party Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi's bridesmaids wore floral gowns from Lord & Taylor—"such a special find," she says. "They had the perfect peach and mauve tones, and the cut and flow of the dresses matched the garden aesthetic that I was trying to build in the wedding." 38 Looks That Prove Bridesmaids' Dresses Can Be Chic 12 of 25 Mauve for the Gents Michelle Lange Photography The men who joined her bridal party wore complementary mauve tuxedos from The Black Tux. "It was fun, different, and really represented the unique group of friends that I had," she says. "And most importantly, everyone was comfortable and happy with their clothing." 13 of 25 Forever Altared Michelle Lange Photography The pretty chapel on the venue's grounds played a large role in the couple's decision to hold their wedding at Park Chateau. "I really wanted at least one outdoor ceremony, and the chapel on premises made it super convenient to have an outdoor Indian ceremony and then switch to the chapel for the Western," says Sakshi. 14 of 25 In Bloom Michelle Lange Photography Bentwood chairs and large florals at the altar called back to the property's outdoor gardens. 73 Wedding Arches That Will Instantly Upgrade Your Ceremony 15 of 25 Hand in Hand Michelle Lange Photography In lieu of another religious ceremony, Sakshi and Matt asked his grandfather to read a blessing and a prayer, and then invited a friend to lead them through a hand-fasting ceremony, where, says the bride, "we got to actually 'tie the knot' with three cords." 16 of 25 A Wild Welcome Michelle Lange Photography Garden trellises, concrete planters, and climbing florals created a three-piece entry sign and escort display as guests entered the reception space. 17 of 25 Cheers! Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi and Matt drew inspiration for their signature cocktails—a classic gin and tonic, called the "Gin and Teeny," and an "Earl Grey Lemonade" made with tea, lemon, simple syrup, and vodka—from their beloved cats, Teeny and Earl Grey. A small table set up next to the elaborate bar allowed guests to scan the menu before ordering. Wedding Bar Signs to Elevate Your Cocktail Hour 18 of 25 In the Garden Michelle Lange Photography Soaring windows provided natural light to accent the room's architectural details, while oversized florals on the floor and tables showed off the couple's love of plants. "Our favorite activities together involve building and growing our garden and a lot of inspiration in my life and business come from garden design and botanicals," says Sakshi. "I wanted it to feel like you were stepping into a lush garden." 19 of 25 Petal Power Michelle Lange Photography Moss-colored linens backed floral-edged chargers, centerpieces in marble vessels, and fresh petals scattered on top of the vellum-overlay menus. Small boxes held candles in the couple's favorite scent. 20 of 25 Grown with Love Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi and Matt also sent their guests home with small packets of seeds, displayed in custom envelopes that matched the invitation suite and secured on small flower frogs. 21 of 25 Golden Touch Michelle Lange Photography Glass cloche display cases held calligraphed table numbers surrounded by fresh flowers, leaves, and berries. 16 Creative Ways to Use Cloches Throughout Your Wedding 22 of 25 Reading Rainbow Michelle Lange Photography The couple incorporated their love of books into their decor by using small, vintage hardbacks to anchor centerpieces of peach, mauve, and pink flowers in petite bud vases. 23 of 25 Just Dessert Michelle Lange Photography A round table dressed in muted green linens displayed the three-tier chocolate mousse, strawberry, and cream cake from Palermo's Bakery in front of a stunning installation of flowers over the fireplace. 24 of 25 Ready to Celebrate Michelle Lange Photography Sakshi and Matt chose "Can't Help Falling in Love" for their first dance. "I just really love that song and every time I listen to it, it feels so romantic and timeless," says the bride. For the newlyweds, sharing the day with their family and friends provided the most memorable moments. "It was so special to have everyone we loved together at one place, and it almost felt surreal—friends who have been with me since I was in kindergarten meeting friends from college, and cousins from both sides of the family hanging out and getting along," says Sakshi. "I think the best part of the entire thing for me was seeing how excited everyone was to celebrate with us—a light after almost two long years of waiting and isolation." 25 of 25 Sources Michelle Lange Photography Photography, Michelle Lange PhotographyVenue and Catering, Park Chateau Estate and GardensEvent Planning, Amorette Events Co.Flowers, Blue Pansy Floral Design Co.Videography, Bilski ProductionsStationery, Inquisited (design); Czar Press and Mingo Press (printing)Cake, Palermo's BakeryMusic, M4U EventsRentals, Dovetail Rentals; Glam Party RentalsBride's Lehenga, NazrannaBride's Accessories, Erin Rhyne hair piece; Bella Belle shoes; Something Bleu shoesHair, JC Hair DesignMakeup, Beauty on LocationBridesmaids' Dresses, Lord & TaylorGroom's Attire, Manyavar; Men's WearhouseMenswear, The Black TuxBride's Gown Alterations, Belle AtelierEngagement Ring, Oore JewelryFavors, Lauren Redmon Design CoLasercut Signage, Elisa Anne CalligraphyMandap, Mandaps by DhoomSilk Ribbon, Cfleurs DesignSugar Flowers, Mamie Brougitte CakesWatercolor Artwork, Floraison Design Co Was this page helpful? 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