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A "Funky Fresh" Sri Lankan Wedding in Fort Worth, Texas

By Marilyn Oliveira July 12, 2021
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Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka couple
Credit: AR Photography

The couple modernized their otherwise traditional cultural ceremony with unexpected botanicals in bold, bright colorways.

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Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka couple
Credit: AR Photography

Wedding planning for Neesha Siriwardane and Gauge Means turned out to be simple—they simply handed over the heavy lifting to Fort Worth event designer KC Cloud. "I was finishing my last year of medical school in a different city and knew I couldn't be as involved in the process," explains the bride. "I also wanted our day to be stress-free, so we relied heavily on KC to create a vision." With the goal of achieving an event that felt authentic to both of their heritages, the pair gave the direction for a "funky and fresh" fusion celebration that would combine Neesha's Sri Lankan culture with Gauge's American one—with a twist. "We wanted our wedding to equally represent both aspects of our families," says Neesha. "However, as a couple we both feel like we are unconventional and wanted our event to be unique."

The Brik Venue offered a distinctive, industrial interior that appealed to the pair, as well as an open vendor policy. "We felt like we had the best options to customize and make our day what we wanted," says Neesha, who tapped many professionals she had existing relationships with. "Having close friends as vendors helped add a personal touch." Kate McLeod Studio dreamed up a floral palette using nontraditional hues, while pal Demarquis Seets (otherwise known as DJ D Smooth) created a personalized playlist of Louisiana bounce and rap. Further setting their nuptials apart, the couple opted to exchange their handwritten vows rather than adhere to those commonly listed in the Sri Lankan Poruwa ceremony.

Fortunately, the pair had planned their nuptials to take place in April 2021, so the pandemic didn't affect their celebration beyond the obvious precautions. "We urged our guests through our website to get vaccinated before attending if possible and passed out masks," shares Neesha. The worry-free celebration went off without a hitch, a feat the bride emphasizes would not have been achieved without help. "Get a planner!" she asserts to couples seeking a stress-free day. "Finding a professional that you communicate and connect well with with is key. There is no way our wedding would have been executed to the fullest without KC. She created a vision for our event we could not have done ourselves."

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Palette Preview

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka invites
Credit: AR Photography

The couple drew on the deep blues and grays in their color palette when putting together their silver-tipped invitations from Minted.

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Traditional Meets Modern

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka Bride in gown
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When creating Neesha's wedding dress, designer Elizabeth Lees dreamed up a cross between a traditional sari and a western gown using silk crepe and Italian tulle. "I absolutely loved going through the custom process," says the bride. It was an amazing feeling knowing that my dress was created with who I am as a person in mind as well as knowing that it was one of a kind."

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Bright Blooms

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka Bride with flower bouquet
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Kate Mcleod Studio arranged Neesha's vibrant bouquet, which featured a mix of tropical blooms in upbeat colorways.

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Oversized Boutonnière

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka Groom in boutonniere
Credit: AR Photography

An oversized boutonnière, tucked into the pocket of his navy tux from Suit Supply, gave a unique edge to Gauge's wedding-day ensemble.

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Traditional Altar

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka ceremony platform
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A traditional altar was placed in a pool of natural light during the couple's Sri Lankan ceremony. Whimsical floral arrangements were situated on the ground before it, while earthen pots were decorated with coconut flowers and situated in four corners. Fresh betel leaves were incorporated into the décor, forming a circular pattern that was arranged on the platform.

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Let the Sunshine In

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka ceremony decor in front of window
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Baby's breath in shades of blue, blush, and apricot composed a window swag dotted with colorful orchids and roses.

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The Ceremony Begins

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka ceremony bride and groom ritual bow
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Gauge was accompanied by both parents down the aisle, where he waited awaited his bride with family. "This is how it is done in Sri Lankan weddings," says Neesha, who was also walked down the aisle by her mom and dad. "It represents both sets of parents giving away their children to each other."

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Giving Them Away

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka ceremony with bride and groom
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After entering to the sound of  Sri Lankan drums, the bride and her parents took part in a prayer before she joined the groom on the altar.

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Personalization

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka ceremony with laughing bride
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While Neesha and Gauge largely adapted their ceremony to follow Sri Lankan tradition, they broke with one custom and wrote their own vows. "We just wanted them to be heartfelt and authentic," explains the bride.

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Stolen Moments

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka couple portrait
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After they were pronounced husband and wife, the couple stole away from the festivities to pose for a few portraits. Meanwhile, during their cocktail hour, loved ones sipped on a signature drink inspired by their pup, Ellie.

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Gorgeous Guests

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka guests in traditional clothing
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Many of the couple's guests dressed traditionally, wearing colorful, festive saris for the occasion.

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Colorful Clouds

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka reception ceiling decorations
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Fluffy installations of tinted baby's breath were installed overhead in the reception space, highlighting the dramatic ceilings at The Brik Venue.

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Find Your Seat

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka reception escort cards
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Guests picked up their table assignments from a station accented by a bright floral arrangement that coordinated flawlessly with the ceremony blooms.

  • Insanely Creative Escort Cards and Seating Displays

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Industrial Chic

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka wedding reception tables
Credit: AR Photography

Beautifully adorned tables and classic chiavari chairs stood out in a lovely contrast to the industrial reception room. The pair baked and packed traditional Sri Lankan wedding cakes as their favors, placing a personalized box at each place setting. "Local folklore is that the grinding of spices and nuts make this cake a symbol of the true labor of love," notes Neesha. "It lasts a really long time so guests can enjoy [their cake] weeks later and remember your wedding."

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Minimal, Colorful

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka table centerpieces
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Simple, petite centerpieces, arranged Ikebana-style, defined the tables, alongside framed table numbers and yellow taper candles.

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Sweetheart Station

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka reception sweetheart table decorations
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The couple's sweetheart's table was swathed in mauve velvet and adorned with a runner of more multicolored dried flowers interspersed with fresh. Lit tapers added a romantic glow.

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Baby's Breath Cake

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka minimalist cake
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Iced in white and stacked four tiers tall, the couple's gold-edged wedding cake featured the flavors amaretto and strawberry Champagne.

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The First Dance

Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka couple dancing
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They took a spin to Hot Chip's "Look at Where We Are" at the start of the party. "We chose this song because we loved listening to Hot Chip together in college and thought it represented how we were finally together after years of long distance dating and hardships," notes Neesha.

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Neesha and Gauge Real Wedding in Sri Lanka couple exit kiss
Credit: AR Photography

Photography, AR Photography
Venue, The Brik Venue
Wedding Planning and Event Design, KC Cloud
Flowers, Kate Mcleod Studio
Invitations, Minted
Officiant, Lal Jayaratna
Bride's Attire, Elizabeth Leese
Shoes, Bella Belle
Hair and Makeup, BA Beauty
Groom's Attire, Suit Supply
Engagement Ring and Wedding Bands, Brilliant Earth
Guest Book, SignatureMats
Music, DJ D Smooth (Demarquis Seets)
Catering, Babes
Cake, Loft 22 Cakes
Rentals, May I Serve U
Lighting, Howse Lighting & Production

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