Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Fall Weddings A Garden Ceremony and Flower-Filled Dinner Reception at a Resort in Rancho Santa Fe By Sara Dickinson Sara Dickinson Sara is a freelance writer for MarthaStewart.com. Editorial Guidelines Published on February 5, 2021 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Amy Golding Chanel and Paul met in New York City in the fall of 2018; shortly after, they shared a first date. They decided to remain friends—at least at first. Their relationship had turned romantic by the end of 2019, and over the course of next year, the two started talking about taking the next step. On a trip to Paul's hometown in the United Kingdom, Chanel had a dream that he proposed. The next day, the couple stopped at a scenic point along the harbor on their way to dinner, and while she took in the sunset, Paul dropped to one knee. The couple celebrated their proposal with a Champagne toast with friends before sharing an intimate dinner together at Pig on the Beach in Studland, Dorset. When the COVID-19 pandemic hit in the middle of their wedding-planning process, the duo were forced to make a difficult decision to either limit the number of guests at their wedding or legally tie the knot and celebrate with a larger reception in the future. "In the end we found a third way," says Chanel. "We didn't want to hold up getting married or starting our family because of COVID-19." So, the bride and groom put together a small celebration with just the bride's parents in attendance. "Though we missed our friends and more family being there, this intimate event proved to be incredibly special and unforgettable," the bride says. The couple worked with a planner and event designer from Amorette Events Company and leaned on suggestions from their photographer, Amy Golding, to put together an intimate ceremony and dinner reception in just two weeks' time. Luckily, the couple fell in love with Rancho Valencia Resort and Spa in Santa Fe, California, as soon as they saw the property's Tuscan-style walls and lush foliage. With a scenic olive grove as their backdrop, they were married in an informal outdoor ceremony—and enjoyed a black-tie dinner for four afterwards to celebrate. 01 of 16 Sweet Announcements Amy Golding With only two guests on their list, Chanel and Paul opted to send big-day announcements in lieu of invitations. They went with a four-piece suite that included an announcement card, an illustrated map, a custom venue illustration vellum insert, and a black-and-white photo from the event. How to Word Your Invitations for Every Type of Wedding 02 of 16 The Only One Amy Golding Chanel wore her original wedding dress, a strapless crepe number from Justin Alexander Signature. "This was the only one I considered for the day—especially with a bump to accommodate!" Chanel says. On her feet, she donned comfortable, but stylish nude sandals with a block heel from Valentino. 03 of 16 With Mom (and Grandma!) Amy Golding On the morning of the wedding, the bride's mother gifted her a heart shaped pendant necklace she had commissioned for the occasion. Chanel also wore her late grandmother's diamond earrings. "It was really symbolic and meaningful to wear these pieces, which connected me to the two most influential women in my life," she says. "I just wish my grandmother could have been there." 04 of 16 In Bloom Amy Golding She held a full bouquet that included wild and seasonal flowers within the big-day color palette of white, cream, blush, peach, and sage green. A Comprehensive Guide to Wedding Bouquet Shapes 05 of 16 Morning Suit Amy Golding Paul wore a traditional morning suit from Gieves and Hawkes. One of his intended groomsman, Sam, gifted him cuff links that had both the United Kingdom and United States flags to represent the couple's union. 06 of 16 On Location Amy Golding The ceremony took place in the rose garden, overlooking an olive grove. The area is flanked by two large palm trees, so Chanel and Paul kept the ceremony décor simple and let the venue's natural beauty take center stage. 07 of 16 Semi-Circle Amy Golding Their florist, Erin Ward of Oak and Amble, created a stunning ground-level semi-circle arrangement to frame the ceremony space. A Wedding Ceremony Trend We're Loving: Grounded Floral Arches 08 of 16 Best Seats in the House Amy Golding Chanel and Paul wanted informal seating for their two guests—the bride's parents—so they placed two cross-back wooden chairs on the lawn. 09 of 16 Vow Exchange Amy Golding Although the ceremony wasn't religious, the pair chose a non-denominational Christian minister to officiate the proceedings. Chanel and Paul recited their own vows, recounting highlights of their relationship and their excitement for the future ahead. Both the bride and groom ended up including their unofficial motto in their vows—GSD, or "Get Stuff Done!" 10 of 16 Portrait Time Amy Golding After the service, the newlyweds posed for some portraits with their photographer, Amy Golding, around the resort grounds. "She took incredible photos, capturing the day and the aesthetic perfectly, making it even easier to remember forever," the bride shares. The Ultimate Wedding Photo Shot List 11 of 16 Look Twice Amy Golding Chanel decided to change into a second look for the dinner portion of the event. She chose a white cocktail dress from Alice & Olivia. 12 of 16 A Table for Four Amy Golding The duo enjoyed an intimate dinner with Chanel's parents at a private table in the center of the terrace, where their floral-heavy theme was continued. They re-purposed the ceremony arrangements, which were placed at the ends of the table and at the base of the cake station to enhance the natural surroundings. 13 of 16 Romantic Details Amy Golding They chose a cream linen for the dinner table; the place settings included gray chargers paired with Monique Lhuillier plates and napkins that Chanel had found and loved. Centerpieces included an arrangement of white, cream, and blush florals, punctuated with several single stems that were placed in delicate glass votives. The Prettiest Place Settings from Real Celebrations 14 of 16 Two Tiers Amy Golding Their wedding cake was a tiered white carrot cake—the groom's favorite. The confection was displayed on a round table that was embellished with floral arrangements from the service. 15 of 16 Not a Micro Wedding Amy Golding Chanel and Paul are grateful they made the decision to get married in a meaningful way, without risking the health and safety of their loved ones. "Nothing needed to be compromised to accommodate the needs or timing of a larger event or lots of guests, so it was really perfect," Chanel says. "Every detail we chose reflected our tastes and style, with family and our future son at the center of the day. It wasn't a micro wedding: It was a perfect wedding day, reflecting the times we are in." How to Make Sure Your Elopement or Intimate Wedding Feels Monumental 16 of 16 Sources Amy Golding Photography, Amy Golding PhotographyVenue, Catering, and Cake, Rancho ValenciaWedding Planning and Event Design, The Amorette Events CompanyFlowers, Erin Ward of Oak and AmblePaper Products, Salt Paper Co.Bride's Gown, Justin AlexanderBride's Second Dress, Alice & OliviaBride's Shoes, ValentinoHair and Makeup, Elwynn + CassGroom's Attire, Gieves and HawkesRentals, Rustic Urban EventsPlates and Napkins, Monique Lhuillier Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit