Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Spring Weddings This New York Couple Threw Their Ceremony in Their Front Yard—and Their Party in the Back By Marilyn Oliveira Marilyn Oliveira Marilyn is a freelance writer for MarthaStewart.com. Editorial Guidelines Published on November 24, 2020 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Jainé Kershner Photography Ashley and Tim didn't have to think twice when deciding on a new venue after their initial wedding plans were derailed due to the pandemic. "We got married at our new home!" Ashley exclaims. "We moved into our house in May of this year and knew that with flat yards on both sides of our house, it would work perfectly to have the ceremony in the front and then the cocktail hour and reception in the back. It was very special to be able to get married at our first home together." The pair originally planned to celebrate at a country club in May 2020 with their 200 guests. "The ceremony was going to be on the lawn overlooking the mountains and Hudson River, followed by a reception in a tent with farm tables, white flowers, and candles," says Ashley. "As COVID restrictions were put in place throughout March and then continually extended, it became clear to us in April that we were not going to be able to have the wedding we originally planned." Shifting gears made the couple focus on their priorities and think about what they really wanted for their big day. "What it boiled down to for us was that we wanted our closest family and friends to see us get married, and that a more intimate setting was just as special as an elaborate wedding," explains Ashley. It took the pair about six weeks to plan their new event without the help of a planner or designer, utilizing many of their original vendors. "Even though it was a lot of work to reschedule, our vendors were very flexible and worked with us to make sure that our vision still came to life at our home," says the bride. Another aspect that didn't change was Ashley's meaningful big-day look. "I lost my grandmother a year and a half ago, so it was important to me that I incorporate [some of her things] into my wedding day," she says. "I wore earrings shaped like a flower and a ring on my right hand that are made out of diamonds from her old jewelry. I carried a vintage Judith Lieber clutch that also belonged to my grandmother." Ultimately, the couple realized much of their original vision of a clean, classic aesthetic, a green-and-white color palette, and plenty of candlelight—just on a smaller scale, and at a venue that was even more personal to them. "There is only so much we can control in this uncertain time," says Ashley. "We were able to make that vision come to life in a smaller—and arguably more special—setting. And we have no regrets about that!" 01 of 18 Bride in White Jainé Kershner Photography The bride customized her beaded, embroidered Anne Barge mermaid wedding dress with ornate spaghetti straps and white buttons down the back. "I knew that we were not going to have a larger celebration in the future and, given that my dress was not a large ball gown that may have looked out of the place in our new venue, I decided to wear my original dress," she says. 02 of 18 Beads and a Bouquet Jainé Kershner Photography Ashley's all-white bouquet was composed of garden roses and magnolia blossoms; satin ribbons and a strand pearls held it all together. 64 White Wedding Bouquets 03 of 18 Footwear Finery Jainé Kershner Photography Her sparkling silver Miu Miu shoes with inset crystal details featured a chic block heel, which made navigating the grass a breeze. 04 of 18 A Beauty in Blue Jainé Kershner Photography Ashley's sister, who served as her maid of honor, wore a strapless gown by Aidan Mattox in a stunning shade of sapphire. 05 of 18 A Fabulous First Look Jainé Kershner Photography The couple's first look took place at the picturesque school where the bride's mother works. Getting his first glimpse of Ashley on their wedding day was an all-time highlight for Tim. "There was a lot of anticipation and excited nervousness in that moment, which turned into pure joy the second I turned around," he says. "I loved being able to have time to ourselves and take photos with just our photographers." Tim wore a blue three-piece tuxedo from Suit Supply and accented the bespoke tux with a black leather watch by Ulysse Nardin (a gift from Ashley on his 40th birthday) and gold knotted cuff links that belonged to the bride's grandfather (who was unable to travel from Florida to the wedding). 9 Tips for Making the Most of Your First Look 06 of 18 Beautiful Backdrop Jainé Kershner Photography In lieu of a traditional floral arch, the altar was marked with an open backdrop of birchwood swathed in weeping wisteria, calla lilies, and long white orchids, courtesy of their florist, Ruth Ridgeway Designs. 07 of 18 Safe and Stylish Jainé Kershner Photography White masks embroidered with the couple's initials were offered to guests at the entrance to the aisle. 08 of 18 Safe Spaces Jainé Kershner Photography Ceremony seats were positioned mindfully, with social distancing in mind. How to Make a Socially Distant Wedding Feel Special 09 of 18 Stirring Recitations Jainé Kershner Photography During the service, the duo exchanged vows they wrote themselves. "I am so happy that we did, because it was the most special part of the day to me," says Ashley. "Each of us got to express in our own words and ways what the other means. Being a book lover, I included a quote from one of my favorite authors, while Tim—more of the comedian in the relationship—got to throw in a few jokes." 10 of 18 All Smiles Jainé Kershner Photography Post-ceremony, the couple posed for a few portraits with their families. 11 of 18 Lovely Lounge Area Jainé Kershner Photography The couple transformed a section of their backyard into a chic lounge for the cocktail hour, complete with cabanas, couches, and comfortable chairs. 12 of 18 Secure Apps Jainé Kershner Photography Miniature glass cloches kept a bevy of passed appetizers protected prior to the reception and helped minimize contact. Unique Passed Appetizers Guaranteed to Elevate Your Cocktail Hour 13 of 18 A Scenic Delight Jainé Kershner Photography The couple brought in a clear canopy that allowed attendees to see all of the trees that surrounded the house. Swags of greenery and arrangements of dried pampas grass added an organic touch. Wooden chairs surrounded exposed farm tables that were set with sophistication aplomb on the couple's patio. 14 of 18 Glorious Greenery Jainé Kershner Photography Greenery runners dotted with white blooms ran down the length of the tables; candles placed at different heights added a romantic glow. Lush Wedding Garlands Guaranteed to Elevate Your Reception 15 of 18 Clean and Classic Jainé Kershner Photography Place settings were kept minimal in style, which spoke to the couple's vision for a clean, classic look. "We used silver charger plates and white napkins accented with a little bit of greenery on each one," says Ashley. "The tables were connected end to end in two rows, so instead of doing a seating chart, we opted to place an acrylic cut-out of each person's name on their plate." Both Tim and Ashley are food lovers and enjoy trying new restaurants, so dinner—which was catered by Thomas Preti Events to Savor—was an important aspect of their big day. "This was the part of the planning that I was most involved in, especially when it came to the tasting," says the groom. A salad of burrata with heirloom tomato, stone fruit, Persian cucumber, micro arugula, and aged balsamic set the stage for the menu to come, which included plenty of vegetarian options. 16 of 18 Tiers of Joy Jainé Kershner Photography The couple cut into a three-tier wedding cake iced in white with gold accents; Riviera Bakery created the confection and added sugar flowers as the finishing touch. 17 of 18 No Need to Guess Jainé Kershner Photography Tim and Ashley chose "Second Guessing" by Florida Georgia Line for their first dance. "Both of us loved it as soon as we heard it and would dance around our living room singing and dancing with each other to it," says the bride. 18 of 18 Sources Jainé Kershner Photography Photography, Jainé Kershner PhotographyFlowers, Ruth Ridgeway DesignsStationery, MintedOfficiant, Hillsong New YorkBride's Gown, Anne Barge via KleinfeldShoes, Miu MiuClutch, Judith LeiberHair and Makeup, BeautiniMaid of Honor's Dress, Aidan MattoxMenswear, Suit SupplyWatch, Ulysse NardinMusic, Total EntertainmentCatering, Thomas Preti Events to SavorCake, Riviera Bakery Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit