Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Summer Weddings After Canceling Their Big Wedding, This Couple Tied the Knot in Their Wedding Planner's Backyard in California By Sara Dickinson Sara Dickinson Instagram Sara is a freelance writer for MarthaStewart.com. Editorial Guidelines Published on October 2, 2020 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Jessica Mangia Kelsey and Jake met through mutual friends in September 2015—five years later, in February 2020, Jake was down on one knee. He decided to pop the question on a ski trip in Utah, surprising Kelsey with a path of rose petals and lit candles placed throughout their cabin. Although they originally planned for a big wedding in June, the COVID-19 pandemic threw a wrench in their timeline. After pushing their wedding date back a month, hoping that they would be able to celebrate with every person on their guest list, it soon became clear that they would not be able to have the wedding they had initially envisioned. "It took a long time for me to accept it, but I just had to tell myself that the most important thing about all of this is that we wanted to be married and that the most important people in our lives were there," the bride says. With help from their planner, Heather Balliet of Amorology, the couple spent five months preparing for a completely different backyard wedding with just their closest family and friends. The hardest part of the planning process was making big decisions with so many unknowns about the pandemic—this was especially challenging when choosing a venue. Luckily, Heather saved the day: She kindly offered her own backyard for their celebration. Most importantly, Kelsey and Jake wanted to give their 30 guests a memorable experience while doing everything they could to keep them safe. The result? An outdoor summer wedding, complete with a lilac, blush, bone, tan, mauve, and curry green color palette, that, first and foremost, prioritized social distancing. 01 of 28 On-Palette Invitations Jessica Mangia The invitations—created by Epoch Design—spoke to the overarching color scheme of the couple's backyard wedding. A bone-hued letterpress invitation was filled with lilac script, while a blush ceremony card was lettered in tan; a green RSVP envelope offered a pop of color. The envelope liner included an illustration of two intertwined hands. "It was the perfect unique touch and everyone complimented it!" Kelsey shares. 20 Pretty Envelope Liners That Dressed Up Wedding Invitation Suites 02 of 28 The Only Dress Jessica Mangia Kelsey went to four stores on the search for her dream wedding dress. After trying on garment after garment, she was blown away by a simple, but modern Leanne Marshall gown with a V-neckline and long sleeves. "I hated every dress I tried on after it!" she explains. 03 of 28 Simple Accessories Jessica Mangia The bride wanted her gown to be the focal point of her look, so she kept her accessories simple. She wore a diamond necklace and earrings from Nordstrom, strappy sandals from BHLDN, and an elegant veil from Alta Moda. 04 of 28 Colorful Bouquet Jessica Mangia Kelsey held a large bridal bouquet from Posey Pop; the arrangement included cream, lilac, blush, and peach floral varietals with some greenery for texture. A Comprehensive Guide to Wedding Bouquet Shapes 05 of 28 Dapper Groom Jessica Mangia Jake donned a black suit from Nordstrom paired with a crisp white dress shirt and a black bow tie from The Tie Bar. Bruno Magli dress shoes finished his look. 06 of 28 Pastel Ladies Jessica Mangia Kelsey's bridesmaids wore different dresses sourced from Show Me Your Mumu, ASOS, and Lulus; all of the garments fit into the event's color scheme. 28 Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses from Real Weddings 07 of 28 The Men Jessica Mangia Jake's half of the wedding party kept it classic with black dress pants, white dress shirts, and sleek accessories from the The Tie Bar. 08 of 28 The First Look Jessica Mangia Kelsey and Jake shared their first look at a nearby olive tree grove a few hours before the ceremony began. "I was so excited to see Kelsey in her wedding dress. It had been about two days since I had seen her, and hearing her voice while my back was turned filled me with butterflies," Jake says. 09 of 28 Safe Ceremony Setup Jessica Mangia In order to keep guests safe, lilac velvet chairs and white cross-back chairs were spaced accordingly on either side of the aisle. How to Adjust Your Wedding Design If You Had to Reschedule Your Date Due to the Coronavirus Pandemic 10 of 28 Biggest Fan Jessica Mangia Upon their arrival, each guest found a rattan fan on their chair; they used them to keep cool during both the service and reception. 11 of 28 Tonal Backdrop Jessica Mangia The couple worked with Backup Backdrops to create an ombré structure, designed around sunset hues, for the altar. The suspended piece was then adorned with a garland of baby's breath—and anchored with a colorful ground arrangement—for a romantic touch. 12 of 28 On the Aisle Jessica Mangia Loose arrangements, which appeared to have grown out of the earth, lined the aisle, punctuating the space between each row. They matched the day's palette and featured organic stems in a variety of heights. 35 Altar and Aisle Decorations We Love 13 of 28 On Dad's Arm Jessica Mangia Kelsey's father, Chris, walked her down the aisle while an instrumental version of Hozier's "Cherry Wine" filled the space. 14 of 28 Finally Married Jessica Mangia Jake's father also played a key role during the service: The couple exchanged vows in a religious ceremony that he officiated (he is a leader in their church). 15 of 28 Soda Hour Jessica Mangia During the mocktail hour, the newlyweds served Italian sodas in lieu of alcohol. They switched up the passed appetizer process, too: Light bites were plated and brought to each guest, personally, to limit contact as much as possible. A cactus plant served as the backdrop to the bar. 16 of 28 Lounging Around Jessica Mangia Multiple furniture vignettes—including chairs, cushions, and couches in blush, ivory, and green—were set up throughout the backyard, so guests could safely lounge from a distance. 32 Wedding Lounge Ideas Your Guests Can Cozy Up To 17 of 28 Warming Up Jessica Mangia A fire pit was arranged underneath bistro lighting—guests warmed up around the fire and mingled as the evening went on. 18 of 28 The Escort Display Jessica Mangia Kelsey and Jake always say, "If you'll have me" whenever they invite themselves to something—it's an inside joke they've had for years. They decided to incorporate the phrase, using thin gold lettering, onto the green gingham backdrop in front of their cake and escort card table. Insanely Creative Escort Cards and Seating Displays 19 of 28 Chocolate Lovers Jessica Mangia Chocolate bars, which were calligraphed with each guest's name, directed Kelsey and Jake's nearest and dearest to their assigned seats. 20 of 28 Gated Community Jessica Mangia The reception was held directly behind the house. Guests entered the space through a gate, dressed up with two floral nosegays. 21 of 28 Backyard Dining Jessica Mangia For dinner, long farm tables were placed throughout the yard; they were surrounded with the same lilac velvet chairs and modern white chairs from the ceremony. Bistro lights was strung overhead, creating a romantic vibe as the sun set. Your Comprehensive Guide to Getting Married at Home 22 of 28 On the Table Jessica Mangia Tables were topped with mauve table runners, lime green taper candles in marble holders, and lush centerpieces with blush-and-ivory florals. 23 of 28 Textured Settings Jessica Mangia Every place was set with a rattan charger, a white dinner plate, a gray floral salad plate, gold flatware, and a lilac linen napkin, looped with a gold holder. Green glasses and ceramic tumblers punched things up; blush votives held tea candles. 24 of 28 Let's Eat! Jessica Mangia The duo served a three-course meal that began with appetizers like ahi poke wonton crisps, peach and burrata bruschetta, and chips with guacamole. The salad was, according to Kelsey, the best one she had ever had; it included seasonal fruit, goat cheese, candied nuts, and a vinaigrette dressing. Guests had their choice of a chicken, steak, or vegetarian entrée. Sharing a meal with their loved ones, even from a distance, is one of Kelsey and Jake's favorite memories from their big day. "Looking out at the sunset and sipping Italian soda after we had finished the ceremony was incredible and a moment we will carry with us forever," Kelsey says. How to Choose a Summer Wedding Menu That'll Hold Up in the Heat 25 of 28 Loving Spoons Jessica Mangia Kelsey and Jake took their first married spin to "Loving Spoons" by Tim Hill. "Jake showed me this song when we were first dating and we always think of each other when we listen to it," says the bride. 26 of 28 Dessert Time Jessica Mangia Hey There Cupcake baked the couple a series of cakes, which ranged in size. The one they cut into featured vanilla layers with cream cheese frosting and strawberries, along with chocolate tiers with whipped ganache and dark chocolate pieces. 27 of 28 A Sparkling Exit Jessica Mangia Kelsey and Jake exited their celebration—running straight into married life—under a tunnel of sparklers. "A lot of people do this, but it was such a fun and memorable way to leave the best party of our lives," the bride shares. For couples currently planning their nuptials during the pandemic, Kelsey and Jake have some advice. "There will be a time when you can have a big celebration, but if you love each other and want to get married, I say do it. With all your favorite people by your side, it will still be the best day!" Kelsey says. The couple plans to have a larger reception sometime soon, complete with the guests they couldn't include this time around. 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