Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Spring Weddings Sejal and Narayana's Understated Indian Wedding By Becky Mickel Becky Mickel Becky is a former associate editor for Martha Stewart Weddings. Editorial Guidelines Updated on September 20, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos The Couple Kat Braman It's not unusual for married couples to single out the day they said "I do" as the best of their lives. But for Sejal Bhima and Narayana Gowda, that best day actually spanned three. Over a whirlwind 72 hours, the bride and groom celebrated with no fewer than three ceremonies, two parties, and five wardrobe changes. "There's so much involved in Hindu weddings!" explains Sejal. The happy occasions were set in motion in 2004, when the two crossed paths and became friends at the University of Georgia. A few years following graduation and a stint in New York City for Sejal, a freelance writer, they reconnected after she returned to Atlanta. Narayana, now a medical resident, was completing his med-school rotations there, and their relationship shifted gears into romance. When they threw their wedding two years later, the pair set out to honor their families' traditions but with a modern twist. "Indian weddings are typically an explosion of color, but ours was more serene, with creams and blush pinks," says Sejal, who wore a white bridal lehenga instead of the customary red and slipped into a lace Claire Pettibone gown for the reception. The festivities kicked off Thursday with a haldi ritual where female relatives "prettified" the bride by covering her in turmeric paste, and next, a mehndi party with henna artists decorating women's hands. On day two, Sejal and her family attended a grah shanti, a service that asks for the couple's happiness and prosperity; later, Narayana and his family were welcomed with sweets, games, and presents. Early the next morning, 300 people watched them exchange floral garlands to officially become husband and wife, and then parted ways until the evening reception at The Foundry at Puritan Mill. After Champagne, an Indian buffet with tikka masala and naan, and an elaborate dessert bar piled high with cupcakes and cheesecake, dancing lasted until 2 a.m. "We spent more than a year planning, and it was over in the blink of an eye," says Sejal. But the prep work paid off. "When I look back at our photos and video," she says, "all I see are smiles." Read More About Common Indian Wedding Traditions 01 of 12 A Good Beginning Kat Braman Guests entering the venue were greeted by a brass statue of the Hindu deity Ganesha, known as the remover of obstacles and the god of beginnings. 02 of 12 A Traditional Structure Kat Braman The pair married in a ceremonial mandap structure beneath garlands of carnations, orchids, and brass bells. 03 of 12 The Fashions Kat Braman Narayana and Sejal, carrying a soft-white rose bouquet, posed in traditional dress, designed by Binari Art, for the ceremony. Get Expert Beauty Tips for Indian Wedding Makeup 04 of 12 Ladies in Gray Kat Braman "I knew I wanted them to wear gray," says Sejal of her bridesmaids. She customized the India-sourced gowns with bronze beading. 05 of 12 A Good Read Kat Braman A verse from Pablo Neruda's "100 Love Sonnets," printed on an oversize canvas, hung above the gift table. Sejal had given Narayana a book of the poet's work earlier that day. 06 of 12 The Reception Kat Braman Tall vases of baby's breath topped tables along with smaller displays of hydrangeas, roses, and lilies. 07 of 12 A Change of Clothes Kat Braman Newlyweds Narayana, in a Bar III suit, and Sejal, in Claire Pettibone, sat in front of eucalyptus-adorned drapes at The Foundry to take in the speeches and dances offered in their honor. 08 of 12 Twice As Nice Kat Braman Sejal traded in her all-rose ceremony bouquet to clutch a cloud of baby's breath for her bridal portraits. 09 of 12 Kid-Friendly Crafts Kat Braman Coloring books with illustrations of Indian brides and grooms, commissioned from Unhinged Designs, kept the pair's 30 youngest guests happy and occupied. 10 of 12 Sweet Treats Kat Braman Guests could choose from four flavors of mini cupcakes: strawberry, coconut-lemon, red velvet, and Guinness. 11 of 12 Topping It Off Kat Braman Syrups for the serve-yourself cheesecake bar included chocolate, pineapple, and raspberry. 12 of 12 Sources Kat Braman Location: The Foundry at Puritan Mill Event Design and Flowers: Weddings InStyle Day-of Coordination and Dessert-Bar Styling: Simply Charming Socials Catering: Sage Catering Photography: Kat Braman Videography: Pure Motion Films Stationery: IndianWeddingCard.com Calligraphy: Chelsea Petaja, of Oh My Deer Cake and Cupcakes: Miss Mamie's Music: Sketch Sound Productions Rentals: Collection Event Furniture Rentals Additional Rentals and Lighting: Luxury Lounge & Lighting Bride's Attire: Binari Art [ceremony]; Claire Pettibone [reception] Bride's Accessories [worn with traditional attire]: Kelly's Closet hair clips and finger bracelet; Magic Mirror jewelry; Bhldn earrings; Badgley Mischka shoes Hair: Max Sanchez of White Salon and Spa Makeup: Claudia Mejerle Rogers Groom's Attire: Binari Art [ceremony]; Bar III [reception] Groom's Accessories: Johnston & Murphy shoes; Nordstrom tie, pocket square, and tie clip Transportation: Special Day Limos Henna Artist: Manisha's Mehendi Designs, 678-900-7846 Was this page helpful? 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