Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Weddings Real Weddings Real Wedding: Alyce and Shawn, San Francisco By Martha Stewart Editors Martha Stewart Editors An article attributed to "Martha Stewart Editors" indicates when several writers and editors have contributed to an article over the years. These collaborations allow us to provide you with the most accurate, up-to-date, and comprehensive information available.The Martha Stewart team aims to teach and inspire readers daily with tested-until-perfected recipes, creative DIY projects, and elevated home and entertaining ideas. They are experts in their fields who research, create, and test the best ways to help readers design the life they want. The joy is in the doing. Editorial Guidelines Updated on September 20, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Alyce and Shawn's Wedding by the Bay Jessica Burke Photography In December of 2011, Shawn attended an event hoping to meet someone special. Little did he know just how special that someone would be. After striking up a conversation with Alyce, an attractive brunette, he headed home wanting to find out more about her. A few Facebook messages later, the two decided they should talk more in real life, and exactly one year after their first date, the couple wed with San Francisco's famous bay as the backdrop. 01 of 20 A Special Spot in the City Jessica Burke Photography To showcase their beautiful city, Alyce and Shawn chose San Francisco's famous Presidio as their venue. With its green spaces, rich history, and spectacular view, it was the perfect spot for a romantic garden party and their traditional Jewish wedding ceremony. 02 of 20 The Personalized Suite Jessica Burke Photography Invitations by Minted featured an illustration of a chuppah hinting at the Jewish wedding traditions to come. Courtney Talbot also designed cute coasters featuring a similar drawing that tied in with the rest of the stationery. 03 of 20 Dashing Duo Jessica Burke Photography The bride looked stunning in a Claire Pettibone gown from Glamour Closet and a custom-made veil by Veil Artistry. She alternated between Badgley Mischka heels and mint green Chloe flats. Shawn wore a J. Crew Ludlow suit in Irish linen and a Richard James tie. 04 of 20 Bridesmaids in Blue Jessica Burke Photography Bridesmaids wore Dessy After Six dresses in a soft shades of blue. See More Bridesmaids from Real Weddings 05 of 20 Fetching Groomsmen Jessica Burke Photography The gents matched the groom in J. Crew suits with ties from Etsy. See More Groomsmen from Real Weddings 06 of 20 Soft Bouquet with Sentiment Jessica Burke Photography Alyce carried a loose bouquet full of texture and a few special touches: "I remember stopping to smell lilac bushes on road trips with my grandmother," she said. "I had no idea lilacs came in white—they were perfect." Also in the mix were white hydrangea, blush ranunculus, and jasmine. See More White Wedding Bouquets 07 of 20 Beautiful Boutonnieres Jessica Burke Photography Soft pink ranunculus and dusty miller were clustered for the guys. "Shawn thinks of rosemary as 'nature;s cologne,'" said Alyce, so his boutonniere and her bouquet both included a sprig. Browse More Boutonnieres 08 of 20 Detailed Chuppah Jessica Burke Photography The chuppah in a Jewish wedding ceremony is symbolic of the first roof the bride and groom share together. Michelle at Olam Weddings made a special structure for the couple featuring stripes of ribbon, lace, and green silk leaves. "It was important to us that the ceremony be outside, so we prepared for afternoon fog with heat lamps," said Alyce. "But we were fortunate to have a beautiful, warm day, and we didn't have to use them!" 09 of 20 A Spiritual Service Jessica Burke Photography The ceremony combined both Alyce and Shawn's religious traditions—the bride is Orthodox Jewish and the groom is Egyptian Karaite Jewish—including the reading of the Ketubah and reciting of the Sheva Brachot, seven special blessings to honor the wedding. 10 of 20 The Happy Couple Jessica Burke Photography The couple walked up the aisle as husband and wife with Shawn in his prayer shawl. 11 of 20 Honoring Tradition Jessica Burke Photography Many traditional Jews start a celebratory meal by washing their hands, so wedding planner Jacin Fitzgerald of Lovely Little Details created a special station for guests. Textured ribbons in a variety of hues served as a backdrop and simple flowers complemented the ritual objects on the table. 12 of 20 Green Tablescapes Jessica Burke Photography Succulents and an abundance of eucalyptus decorated long wooden reception tables along with glowing mercury glass votives. See More Simple Wedding Centerpieces 13 of 20 A Savory Selection Jessica Burke Photography Since the couple opted not to have a plated dinner, the couple made sure there was plenty of food available. The framed menu display let guests know all about the tabled hors d'oeurvres being offered: butternut squash ravioli, honey and togarashi chicken drumettes, basil and almond salmon medallions, a Mediterranean eggplant appetizer, and grilled vegetables. 14 of 20 Self-Serve Stations Jessica Burke Photography Guests filled their plates at a carving station stocked with rack of lamb and barbequed brisket sliders. Mashed potatoes were served up with an array of garnishes where on display for guests to choose from: sliced black olives, caramelized onions, chopped tomatoes, caviar, salsa fresco, tortilla chip strips, basil pesto, cabernet gravy, and baby peas. 15 of 20 Lit with Love Jessica Burke Photography Ashley Hugus of Got Light set an amazing scene inside the Golden Gate Club as the sun went down. 16 of 20 Tokens of Affection Jessica Burke Photography Instead of having loved ones sign a standard tome, the couple encouraged guests to leave a favorite recipe, funny messages, or a piece of heartfelt marriage advice. Get More Unique Guest Book Ideas 17 of 20 Mood Music Jessica Burke Photography Alyce and Shawn swayed to Jeff Buckley's version of "Hallelujah" for their first dance. See More First Dance Songs from Real Weddings 18 of 20 The Happy Hora Jessica Burke Photography The newlyweds bobbed joyfully above dancing guests during the Hora. 19 of 20 Sweet Spread Jessica Burke Photography Guests were encouraged to graze on the petit fours along with a mix of macarons and chocolates that filled the dessert table. See More Decadent Dessert Tables 20 of 20 Sources Jessica Burke Photography Photographer: Jessica Burke Venue: Golden Gate Club Wedding planner: Lovely Little Details Catering: Continental Catering Stationery: Invitations, Minted; Wedding Day Paper, Courtney Talbot Entertainment: DJ All Star Jukebox, Brian Wachhorst Rentals: Hartmann Party Rentals; Classic Party Rentals; One True Love Vintage Rentals; La Tavola Wedding Rings: Elliott Chandler Designs Hair and Makeup: Sophia Coyne, Painted Ladies Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit