Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Spring Weddings An Ocean-Inspired "East Meets West" Wedding in Carmel Valley, California By Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland is a contributing writer with more than a decade of experience as a freelance lifestyle writer. Editorial Guidelines Published on April 20, 2020 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Amanda Crean Stephanie Whaley felt only optimism on April 10, 2014, when she met Calvin Vinitwatanakhun for dinner: "It was a blind date," she says, "so the evening was already going to be filled with beautiful surprises." Those unexpected moments included a leisurely walk through the city, dinner at a rooftop restaurant, and cocktails at a bar where the couple danced alone in the center of the room. "The spontaneity of the night brought us closer together," she says. "The rest was history." Four years later, Stephanie, Calvin—an avid sailor—and some friends planned a weeklong sailing trip in the Bahamas. During a sunset photoshoot on a secluded beach, Calvin surprised her with a proposal as their friends cheered him on. "It was a magical experience we will always treasure," she says. Stephanie and Calvin wanted to create a wedding atmosphere they describe as "Zen meets Jackie O: Japanese elements beautifully contradicting Danish, minimalist design with a touch of spirituality." They chose Holman Ranch in Carmel Valley, California, as the venue for their 110-guest wedding, held on May 19, 2019. "We wanted our wedding day to be a reflection of our love and gratitude for our beautiful family and friends, by romanticizing and paying homage to our Peruvian and Thai cultures," says Stephanie. "As first generation immigrants, our vows reflected our devotion to our past and the future mark we would leave on the world as a couple." On the big day, stormy weather forced the couple to move their garden ceremony inside and tent their al fresco dining area. But as the couple arrived at the venue that day, the clouds cleared and a rainbow appeared. "This rainbow was symbolic for me as I had mentioned to my dad the evening before, 'My only wish from the rain is for a rainbow to appear before us as I'll know it's a sign from my grandfather blessing us with his warm energy and love from above,'" says Stephanie. "And that is exactly what transpired." Despite the weather, the couple experienced the day they had envisioned while planning. "Patience was key for us, as we subscribed to the Wabi Sabi teaching of temporal events leaving a lasting impression in our memory palace to cherish for years to come," says Stephanie. "Enjoy the present moment in everything you do and experience—its ephemeral timeline is a reality." 01 of 19 Getting the Blues Amanda Crean Gatherie Creative designed an invitation suite that incorporated the couple's "East meets West" theme with their dusty blue signature color and delicate lotus flower accents. "We both love Japanese culture in all forms—the food, philosophy, art, and history," says Stephanie. "We opted to incorporate the element of Wabi Sabi into our invites while providing a nod to modern Danish simplicity." 02 of 19 Her Custom Wedding Dress Amanda Crean Stephanie's lace mermaid sheath wedding dress from Pronovias came with a detachable overskirt and one feature that proved it was "the one" as soon as she put it on: "It had pockets!" she says. 8 Things to Keep in Mind While Wedding-Dress Shopping 03 of 19 Subtle Alterations Amanda Crean Still, she made a few other changes: "We ended up customizing the gown to reflect a traditional, yet romantic, Peruvian-style wedding dress." 04 of 19 A Perfect Fit Amanda Crean The couple's New York City tailor created a bespoke tuxedo with notch lapels for Calvin, which Stephanie describes as "fit for a prince." Boutonnières of heuchera, lisianthus, and eucalyptus from Lambert Floral Studio added hints of green, purple, and pink. 64 Boutonnières You Both Will Love 05 of 19 First Hug Amanda Crean Stephanie descended a staircase by a stone wall to greet Calvin for their first look. "We were finally doing the thing!" Stephanie says of how she felt during this moment. "The anticipation of sharing our love story and vulnerability with all of our guests filled us with adrenaline and suspense." 06 of 19 Bright Blooms Amanda Crean The venue's blooming landscaping offered a lush setting for the couple's portraits, accented by Stephanie's bouquet of colorful garden roses, clematis, ranunculus, hellebore, eucalyptus, and verbascum. 07 of 19 Dusty Blue and Classic Black Amanda Crean Stephanie asked her bridesmaids to choose their own silhouettes from Azazie, but put them all in a matching shade of blue. "With a dusty blue color to represent the ocean waves, the gals looked fresh and glamorous," she says. Calvin's groomsmen wore traditional black tuxedos from The Black Tux. 38 Looks That Prove Bridesmaids' Dresses Can Be Chic 08 of 19 An Indoor Garden Amanda Crean With rain in the forecast for their big day, Stephanie and Calvin decided to move their ceremony inside the property's wood-paneled barn. They had planned to install an outdoor zen garden for their exchange of vows, but instead created a hanging one by securing hellebore blooms to suspended moss balls (a type of Japanese ikebana, or flower arranging style, called kokedama). Enclosed pillar candles on the floor shimmered during the ceremony. 09 of 19 A Family Affair Amanda Crean As the ceremony began, Stephanie's mother walked down the aisle (she performed the ring bearer's duties!) before her father escorted her to the altar. Bellarosa String Quartet performed "Liz on Top of the World" from Pride & Prejudice. "After watching Pride & Prejudice as an adolescent, I secretly vowed to one day proclaim my love to my future partner with this mesmerizing and soul-embodying piece," says Stephanie, "and on our wedding day, everything came full circle." Stephanie and Calvin wrote their own vows, which she describes as "a proclamation of our greatest desires in life." The ceremony also included a moment of silence for family members who had passed away, and the reading of a favorite Pablo Neruda sonnet. 10 of 19 Drinks of the Day Amanda Crean Signature cocktails at the post-ceremony celebration "reflected both our heritage and our favorite travels over the years," says Stephanie. The couple worked with Pour Girl Bartending to create a "Hygge Old Fashioned," made with rye whisky, rhubarb bitters, vermouth, and an orange wedge; "Muay Thai Punch," a mixture of tequila, lychee, Meyer lemon, lime agave, Champagne, and club soda with a nasturtium bloom; and "Túpac Piso Sour," strawberry-infused Frisco Pisco with grape brandy, simple syrup, St. Germain elderflower liqueur, lime juice, egg white, and Angostura bitters. 38 Signature Drinks That'll Personalize Your Cocktail Hour 11 of 19 An Important Date Amanda Crean During the cocktail hour, the newlyweds posed for portraits with the Saint Lucia mountains in the background. "Our wedding festivities began under the Blue Flower Full Moon in Scorpio, followed by our wedding ceremony under a Waning Gibbous in Sagittarius—a time of reflection," says Stephanie. "As an astrologer, it's close to my heart. We chose to start the weekend under a Full Moon in Scorpio because it symbolized our partnership coming full circle, celebrating the end of one chapter, and the beautiful beginning of another." 12 of 19 Master Cards Amanda Crean A small zen garden installed on a tabletop at the cocktail hour held individual cards listing the seating assignments for each table, allowing guests to find their place before entering the reception. 13 of 19 Rain on Your Wedding Day Amanda Crean The venue's Rose Patio hosted the couple's dinner reception, with a clear tent that kept out the rain. "For Calvin, the rain was a wonderful omen as his family noted it was good luck for our future together," says Stephanie. "As soon as we entered the courtyard, the rain resumed, transforming the light drizzle into larger raindrops that set the mood for a romantic, blissful celebration. We couldn't have asked for anything better." Here's What Every Type of Wedding Tent Looks Like 14 of 19 Bubbling Over Amanda Crean Stephanie and Calvin carefully poured a Champagne tower for their guests to start the reception. 15 of 19 Rosy Attitude Amanda Crean Asymmetrical centerpieces with pops of peach, pink, purple, and green were filled with overflowing blooms that rose into the air over the tables. 50 Wedding Centerpiece Ideas We Love 16 of 19 On the Menu Amanda Crean Single blooms rose from delicate vessels and contrasted with the fuller centerpieces, while gray plates and gold flatware complemented the custom menus. "Peruvian and Thai-inspired dishes were served to transport our guests into both of our cultures' histories," says Stephanie. Paradise Catering provided a berry and greens salad topped with edible flowers; salmon with fresh chimichurri; filet mignon with rosemary garlic potatoes; and mushroom ravioli with brown butter sage sauce. 17 of 19 Ocean View Amanda Crean A jaw-dropping dessert from Jasmine Rae Cakes used rice paper to recreate ocean waves in honor of the groom's love of sailing. Guests had their choice of two flavors: Earl Gray tea cake with orange cream cheese and candied ginger, or chocolate cake with ganache, espresso buttercream, and salted caramel. 18 of 19 In Your Arms Amanda Crean Though Stephanie and Calvin shared a first dance during the reception, they cherish another moment, too: "We stole a private dance after our ceremony with our brilliant friend playing one of our favorites—'Clair de Lune'— on the grand piano near the terrace," says Stephanie. "I will never forget the emotion I felt having my newly named husband hold me in his arms with a tenderness so pure and authentic it left me floating on clouds." 19 of 19 Sources Amanda Crean Photography, Amanda CreanVenue, Holman RanchEvent Planning, Natalie Choi Events Catering, Paradise CateringFlowers, Lambert Floral StudioVideography, Patrick AngOfficiant, Monterey Bay Wedding OfficiantsStationery, Gatherie CreativeCake, Jasmine Rae Cakes Music, Bellarosa String QuartetRentals, The Chiavari Guys; Chic Event Rentals; La Tavola Fine Linen; Standard Party RentalsBride's Gown, PronoviasBride's Accessories, Toni Federici veil; M. Gemi shoesHair and Makeup, Makeup by Quis (bride); A-List Makeup (bridesmaids)Bridesmaids' Dresses, Azazie Menswear, The Black TuxTransportation, Main Event TransportationBartending, Pour Girl BartendingGuest Book, Artifact UprisingPhoto Booth, ChromaSignage, Ettie Kim Studio Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit