Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Spring Weddings A Modern, Black-Tie Wedding in Washington, D.C. By Kimberly Krajicek Kimberly Krajicek Kim has always loved planning events—everything from birthday parties to intimate dinners, and now she's planning one of the biggest events of her life—her own wedding! Loving all things wedding-related, Kim uses Instagram, Pinterest, and of course Martha Stewart Weddings as her main sources for inspiration. When she's not planning something, Kim likes to take nature hikes, explore new restaurants, and search for the best cappuccinos in the city. Editorial Guidelines Updated on February 2, 2022 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Bride and Groom Adam Barnes Arielle Goldberg and Matthew Houlihan met at college in California, where they were both playing Division I volleyball at the time. The two hit it off, and after six years of dating, Matt knew he wanted to surprise Arielle with a proposal in her hometown of Washington, D.C. So during a planned trip to visit her family and for a competition, Matt convinced Arielle to visit the Jefferson Memorial. With a hidden photographer nearby (orchestrated by Matt and his future mother-in-law), he completely surprised her and popped the question. "I didn't realize he was proposing until I looked over and saw my mom with her phone out, crying, and taking photos," the bride recalls. The San Jose-based pair (who both serve as directors of the Bay to Bay Volleyball Club) wanted to incorporate California's effortless feel into their wedding, and had a laid-back black-tie wedding in the nation's capitol. On April 10th, 2016, Arielle and Matt exchanged vows in front of 100 guests and held a modern party at The National Headquarters of the Daughters of the American Revolution. The couple passed on traditional wedding elements, like a first dance and cake, and instead focused on having a joyous, memorable celebration for everyone. Modern Weddings 01 of 17 The Stationery Suite Adam Barnes "We wanted something very simple and classic, and we both have really been into marble everything lately, so we decided to get a custom marbled liner for each invitation," explains Arielle. Keeping to their color palette of black and white, the couple worked with Paperzest to create their stationery suite. Elegant Marbled Wedding Ideas 02 of 17 The Location Adam Barnes Arielle and Matt chose to wed at The National Headquarters of the Daughters of the American Revolution. Located right next to The White House and The Washington Monument, the venue provided guests with a quintessential D.C. experience. 03 of 17 The Welcome Chocolates Adam Barnes "Since we had a lot of guests flying in from out of town, we thought a welcome gift would be great when they checked into their hotels," says Matt. Keeping with their marble theme, little welcome boxes had custom chocolates that said "Welcome to Washington" created by Buttercream Bakeshop. Welcome Bags from Real Weddings 04 of 17 The Fashions Adam Barnes "I had my eye on an Alexander McQueen gown when we first got engaged, but I didn't know if it would be acceptable to wear, since it wasn't your typical bridal gown," says Arielle, "I went to San Francisco to try on wedding gowns and realized very quickly that I am NOT a bridal gown girl. So, after thinking about it I realized that I needed to just order the Alexander McQueen dress and see how I felt after trying it on—it fit perfectly, and I completely fell in love!" Keeping her look simple and classic, Arielle wore nude Christian Louboutin pumps and David Yurman jewelry. Matt looked dapper in a Vera Wang tuxedo, velvet bow tie, and black velvet loafers. 05 of 17 The Bridal Bouquet Adam Barnes "From the beginning, I knew I wanted to go with white flowers," says Arielle, "We had a mix of different flowers, but my favorites were the fringe tulips." Sweet Root Village created her clean, white bouquet, which also included smilax vines, garden roses, spray roses, ranunculus, peonies, and a mix of greenery. White Wedding Bouquets 06 of 17 The First Look Adam Barnes Arielle and Matt took photos on the balcony of their bridal suite at the J.W. Marriot Hotel and later at DAR. Priceless Grooms’ Reactions to Seeing Their Brides for the First Time 07 of 17 The Bridesmaids Adam Barnes Arielle's six best friends from college served as her bridesmaids, and wore different black dresses from Alice & Olivia, Norma Kamali, Nicole Miller, and Halston Heritage. Mismatched Bridesmaids' Looks We Love 08 of 17 The Groomsmen Adam Barnes Matt's groomsmen, including his brother, Arielle's two brothers, and his three best friends, looked sharp in their tuxedos from Vera Wang. 09 of 17 The Bride's Mother Adam Barnes Arielle and her mother, dressed in Badgley Mischka, took photos at DAR. "My mom has always been my biggest supporter," says the bride. "Throughout the months leading up to the wedding, she kept assuring me that I needed to choose what I liked and not to worry about what anyone else thinks. Even though that was really difficult for me, I think it's probably something that everyone goes through and it was advice I stuck to." 10 of 17 The Ceremony Location Adam Barnes The ceremony took place on the portico of DAR with the Washington Monument in the background and was anchored by a large tree for décor. "After choosing a location like DAR, it was almost like it didn't matter what we put there because it was already so beautiful," says Arielle. 11 of 17 The Bride's Entrance Adam Barnes Arielle's father walked her down the aisle as a string quartet played "Samskeyti" by Sigur Rós. 12 of 17 The Ceremony Adam Barnes During the service, Arielle and Matt exchanged traditional vows. Following the ceremony, on the other side of the portico, a string quartet played as guests enjoyed different Northern California wines and ate a variety of hors d'oeuvres including fried macaroni and cheese bites, raw zucchini lasagna, glazed beets with mozzarella, and raspberries and brie. Wedding Finger Food Recipes Guests Won't Expect 13 of 17 The Seating Chart Adam Barnes Grit & Grace created the blackboard seating chart that sat atop a clear easel draped with greenery and surrounded by black candles. "Having the seating chart was a last-minute decision, and it turned out to be a really cool addition to the wedding," says Arielle. 14 of 17 The Reception Adam Barnes The seated dinner took place in a room connected to the portico, allowing guests to pass through and be both inside and outside. Two long tables were decorated with vibrant eucalyptus from Sweet Root Village, which provided enough greenery to forgo florals. Candles in smoke glass vessels provided elegant décor and a warm glow. The room's architectural details and high ceilings added the finishing touch. 15 of 17 The Place Setting Adam Barnes Paperzest created the marble-themed menus, which rested on top of white dinner plates that were decorated with a small sprig of greenery. Creative Ways to Set Your Reception Table 16 of 17 The Dinner Adam Barnes For dinner, guests ate baby arugula with garden strawberries, beef short rib, short smoked salmon, and asparagus spears with velvety mashed potatoes prepared by Main Event Caterers. Afterwards, instead of serving a traditional wedding cake, s'mores on a stick were passed with berries and cream. Following dessert, the newlyweds and their guests walked over to the after-party location—which happened to be right nearby, with a backdrop of the Washington Monument and White House at night. Wedding S'mores Desserts 17 of 17 Sources Adam Barnes Photography, Adam Barnes Photography Location, National Headquarters of the Daughters of American Revolution Event planning, Laura Ritchie of Grit & Grace Catering, Main Event Caterers Stationery, Paperzest Flowers, Sweet Root Village Videography, Bowen Films Officiant, Matthew McCabe Music, The Long Rangers Rentals, DC Rental Bride's gown, Alexander McQueen Bride's accessories, Christian Louboutin (shoes); David Yurman (jewelry) Hair, Bridal Hair by Remona Makeup, Carl Ray Makeup Artist Bridesmaids' dresses, Alice & Olivia; Norma Kamali; Nicole Miller; Halston Heritage; Illusion Band Groom's suit, accessories, and menswear, Black by Vera Wang Chocolates, Buttercream Bakeshop Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit