Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Fall Weddings An Elegant-Meets-Rustic Farm Wedding in North Carolina By Martha Stewart Editors Martha Stewart Editors An article attributed to "Martha Stewart Editors" indicates when several writers and editors have contributed to an article over the years. These collaborations allow us to provide you with the most accurate, up-to-date, and comprehensive information available.The Martha Stewart team aims to teach and inspire readers daily with tested-until-perfected recipes, creative DIY projects, and elevated home and entertaining ideas. They are experts in their fields who research, create, and test the best ways to help readers design the life they want. The joy is in the doing. Editorial Guidelines Updated on March 27, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Stephanie and Mike Heather Payne In retrospect, it seems almost destined that their paths would eventually intersect. Stephanie Hall and Michael Noël grew up in North Carolina and then headed west looking for adventure. After traveling, exploring, and sowing their oats, they returned to their home state. They finally met in 2012 when Michael, founding partner at an investment firm specializing in start-ups, visited Stephanie's flower and animal farm at the invitation of her sister. "She works at Habitat for Humanity, and they were in a meeting together. She just knew he was the man for me," says Stephanie. "He's funny and kind, and his sister is a farmer, too!" Sure enough, the two nature lovers were a match made in hog (chicken, cow, sheep ... ) heaven. Seven months later, Michael proposed.The obvious organic choice for the duo's I do's was the spot where they met: Sassafras Fork Farm, which Stephanie runs with her parents. "I was never the girl who held a particular vision for the perfect wedding, but I knew ours had to be something soulful, nurturing, and in sync with this place and time," Stephanie says. Location set, the couple began planning. Everything for their wedding would be hand-grown, handpicked, or hand-built, starting with the venue itself: a new barn made from reclaimed wood sourced mostly from a local factory and an old home on the property. "The idea of putting up a beautiful building to welcome folks was so appealing, not just for our wedding but for many celebrations to come," says Stephanie. The carpenter on the job also made long wooden dinner tables and a bar; Stephanie's brother-in-law brewed the beer; and the food was raised and grown by Stephanie, her father, and a few other local farmers. Then there were the flowers—lavish, breathtaking blooms. "I wanted it to feel like the trees and vines had encroached on the barn, like it had been taken back by the land," says Sue Prutting, their floral designer. Prutting enlisted five florist friends from around the country (she called them the Flower Brigade), plus nine local growers, to assist with the setup. On October 11, 2014, loved ones (320 of them!) filled the barn in the late afternoon to witness the couple's nondenominational vows. A cocktail hour followed, including hors d'oeuvres of local cheeses, deviled farm eggs with roasted red peppers, fritto misto, crispy pork belly, lamb meatballs, and peach-glazed North Carolina shrimp, while a three-piece local band played traditional bluegrass music. The sun broke through in time to allow guests to wander outdoors, where they were joined by a few roaming chickens. Next up, a family-style farm-to-fork dinner, featuring platters piled high with braised chicken and bourbon brisket (from animals raised and harvested by Stephanie's father), fritters, and more. Later, the twosome two-stepped to Jack Johnson's "I Got You," starting a dance party that lasted until midnight. "A handful of close friends stayed into the early hours, and we hung out around the fire pit," Stephanie recalls. "We ate leftovers, finished off dessert, sang, and just enjoyed basking in the warmth of the fire." The night was so wonderful, in fact, that by the time they went to bed, it was almost time to get up and feed the animals again. WATCH STEPHANIE AND MIKE'S WEDDING FILM 01 of 23 DIY with Dad Heather Payne Stephanie and her father on the day before the wedding, with her dog, Mason, in tow. Farm-grown flowers were harvested throughout the week. 02 of 23 On the Farm Heather Payne Stephanie's parents tended to the flock. 03 of 23 The Bridal Bouquet Heather Payne "My bouquet was emanating the most fresh and luscious fragrances," says Stephanie, "dahlias, tuberoses, scented geranium, lilies … I didn't want to let it go after photos were taken and dinner was beginning." Some of the flowers were harvested from Stephanie's own farm. Stephanie loves the smell of lilies, so most of the bouquets had at least one yellow trumpet stem in the mix. Stunning Dahlia Wedding Bouquets 04 of 23 Built to Last Heather Payne The barn, built by a local carpenter, was outfitted with foliage- and flower-filled urns for the event. 05 of 23 One Sweet Ride Heather Payne The bride's ride was Michael's father's vintage 1951 Chevy pickup. "We had trouble starting it, which made us a little late to the ceremony!" she says. 06 of 23 Local Guests Heather Payne Even the livestock wanted in on the celebration. Unexpected Wedding Crashers That Turned Out to Be Party Animals 07 of 23 A Welcoming Arrangement Heather Payne An urn bursting with autumn-toned blooms greeted guests at the entrance to the barn, which had been built from reclaimed wood for the event. 08 of 23 Flowers for Days Heather Payne Other arrangements included many varieties of dahlias, grasses, blackberry lily seedpods, celosia, tuberoses, and lisianthus, as well as spray- and garden-rose varieties. 09 of 23 A Heavenly Stairway Heather Payne The staircase was "overgrown" with enormous garlands of oak and maple branches, embellished with hanging smilax, Solomon's seal, tuberose, dahlias, and garden roses. 10 of 23 The Wedding Party Heather Payne The wedding party—a mix of family and friends—gathered by the barn for photos after the ceremony. The bride wore a gown by Bhldn, and the groom was in a suit by Samuelsohn Made to Measure. 11 of 23 A Flower Girl Twirl Heather Payne A flower girl, goddaughter of the groom, wore a Brooks Brothers dress and a vibrant floral crown. There were four flower children in total. Flower Crown Ideas to Top Off Your Wedding Hairstyle 12 of 23 Cheers! Heather Payne Rosé Champagne was served during cocktail hour. 13 of 23 Say Cheese Heather Payne Cheeses, from local creamery Boxcarr Handmade Cheese at Boxcarr Farms, included Cottonseed, Rosie's Robiola, Lissome, and Campo. 14 of 23 The Chicken Dance Heather Payne Party crashers pecked at crumbs during the outdoor cocktail hour. 15 of 23 A Reception to Remember Heather Payne The head table was framed by a garland, made fuller on one side so it would appear to be growing up the wall. The base included elaeagnus, ornamental pear branches, and smilax vine—foliage chosen because it holds up well out of water for hours and would remain fresh throughout the evening. Floral accents of 'Café au Lait' dahlias and garden roses dotted the vines. Vintage brass candleholders with natural golden beeswax candles provided a warm glow. Pretty Candle Centerpieces 16 of 23 The Place Settings Heather Payne The place settings were vintage plates that Stephanie had collected over many years. "I've always loved antique-store finds," she says. 17 of 23 Edible Arrangements Heather Payne Some of the farm-fresh arrangements in terra-cotta urns included surprising elements, like the home-grown carrots and baby golden beets shown here. 18 of 23 Great Music Jaclyn Morgan Photography The couple's friend Leon (with his wife, Bri, who was also a bridesmaid) played for the first half hour of the reception, including the first dance ("I Got You" by Jack Johnson) and the father-daughter dance ("Stand By Me" by Ben E. King). 19 of 23 A Naked Cake Heather Payne A lemon cake—Stephanie's favorite flavor—with buttercream was decorated with spray roses. Garden roses, dahlias, and vines graced the table. Naked Cakes for Your Wedding 20 of 23 Sweets from Friends Jaclyn Morgan Photography In addition to their lemon-and-buttercream wedding cake, dessert included many personalized potluck offerings from friends—many of whom were members of the couple's supper-club group. Amazing Dessert Tables at Weddings 21 of 23 Drink Up Jaclyn Morgan Photography Coffee in mix-and-match vintage cups and saucers accompanied a potluck dessert table. Creative Ways to Serve Coffee at Your Wedding 22 of 23 Good Times Jaclyn Morgan Photography The newlyweds listened to toasts as evening settled in. 23 of 23 Sources Heather Payne Location, Sassafras Fork FarmEvent coordination, Grace Beason of Grace Leisure EventsCatering, Boxcarr FarmsEvent design and flowers, Sue Prutting of White Magnolia DesignsFlowers, FloretPhotography, Heather Payne; Jaclyn Morgan PhotographyStationery, Union Press & Paper; StamplifierReception music, YarnRentals, Remember When Antiques; ClassicVideography, Inkspot Crow FilmsLighting, Get Lit Special Event LightingBride's dress, BhldnBride's hair, Soapbox SalonBride's makeup, The Makeup TeamFlower-girl dresses, Brooks Brothers; InWeddingDress.comRing bearer's attire, Lito Children's WearGroom's suit, Samuelsohn Made to MeasureGroom's shoes, L.L.BeanGroom's shirt, Robert TalbottGroom's tie, Robert JensenTransportation, Greenway Transit Services LLCSound and stage lighting, John Koelle of North State SoundBarn construction and design, Rusty Roof & NailEngagement ring, Todd ReedWedding rings, William Travis Jewelry Was this page helpful? 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