Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Weddings Real Weddings Anthony and Rusty's Broadway-Inspired Brooklyn Wedding By Martha Stewart Editors Martha Stewart Editors Facebook Instagram Twitter Website An article attributed to "Martha Stewart Editors" indicates when several writers and editors have contributed to an article over the years. These collaborations allow us to provide you with the most accurate, up-to-date, and comprehensive information available.The Martha Stewart team aims to teach and inspire readers daily with tested-until-perfected recipes, creative DIY projects, and elevated home and entertaining ideas. They are experts in their fields who research, create, and test the best ways to help readers design the life they want. The joy is in the doing. Editorial Guidelines Updated on October 13, 2021 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos The Couple Thayer Allyson Gowdy Anthony Luscia and Rusty James had been a couple for 16 years when they decided to get hitched. They met in Dallas, where they both went to college, and moved to New York together. Nine apartments, seven jobs, and one major piece of legislation later, Anthony turned to Rusty in an elevator and said, "Now that gay marriage is legal, should we do it?" Rusty said, "Yeah, that would be good." They already felt married, so there was no grand gesture. But the duo knew they had a lot to celebrate; while the proposal was low-key, they made sure that the wedding was not. During Anthony's 10-plus years as the special projects editor at Martha Stewart Weddings, he'd developed a few ideas of how he envisioned the big day. He pictured a dark, masculine color palette that would feel like a black-and-white movie. And Rusty, who's a global director at an auditing firm, is a huge Broadway fan, so Anthony knew that would play a major role. Together (and with more than a little help from our wedding-expert friends), the leading men planned a dance- and music-filled day that would live up to their goal: They wanted their guests to be wowed. 01 of 39 The Stationery Suite Bryan Gardner Stationer Cheree Berry designed the paper goods, from matchboxes to the black, white, and gray foil-printed invitation suite. The backs of the save-the-dates were printed with the lyrics to Earth, Wind & Fire's "September," which just happened to namecheck the wedding date: September 21, 2013. 02 of 39 The Menswear Thayer Allyson Gowdy Anthony almost wore a white bow tie, but after a last-minute switch, the guys both sported black ties along with pocket squares from Bosie New York and cuff links from J. Hilburn. They had labels with their wedding date sewn into their suits. 03 of 39 A Retro Ride Thayer Allyson Gowdy The venue, 501 Union in Brooklyn, has a stable of vintage cars that they let couples use for photo ops. 04 of 39 Sleek Signage Thayer Allyson Gowdy Gold-and-black vinyl decals of the grooms' initials adorned the main door to their venue, letting guests know they were in the right spot for the day's festivities. 05 of 39 Big Yellow Taxi Thayer Allyson Gowdy Friend Aileen Morgan, who sang during the reception, arrived by cab to the soirée. 06 of 39 The Grand Arrival Thayer Allyson Gowdy A New York City double-decker bus picked up out-of-towners and gave them a quick tour of the city before bringing them to the venue, an old body shop-turned-event space. Guests stepped off onto a red carpet and were handed playbills by an usher who invited them to "please enjoy the show." 07 of 39 The Ceremony Programs Thayer Allyson Gowdy Playbill-style programs outlined the cast of characters and order of events. 08 of 39 The Ring Bearers Thayer Allyson Gowdy The grooms' friends' children donned leather jackets to act as the "rock 'n' roll ring bearers." 09 of 39 A Gift for the Little Guy Thayer Allyson Gowdy The grooms gave their "rock 'n' roll ring bearer" a toy car that fit in perfectly with their black, white, and silver palette. 10 of 39 Tiny Dancers Thayer Allyson Gowdy Instead of flower girls, three "tiny dancers"—the daughters of Martha Stewart Weddings editorial director Darcy Miller—led Anthony and Rusty down the aisle. 11 of 39 Gifts for the Girls Thayer Allyson Gowdy Musical-note necklaces from Dogeared were gifted to the young girls who participated in the ceremony. 12 of 39 The Ceremony Thayer Allyson Gowdy During the nondenominational ceremony (or "opening act") officiated by friend Lisa Gahan, a pal sang a personalized rendition of "Over the Rainbow." Anthony and Rusty also exchanged self-penned vows, with Rusty promising not to leave his gym clothes on the floor, and Anthony swearing that no matter how late he'd been out the night before, he will get up, put a smile on his face, and, with Jesus in his heart, go to brunch with his buddies. Afterward, a choir sang Madonna's "Like a Prayer" as they exited. "My absolute favorite part of the wedding was when the choir sang 'Like a Prayer,'" Anthony says. "It began with all of the guests seated, watching the singers in their robes line up. But by the time we recessed, the entire room was dancing and singing at the top of their lungs." 13 of 39 The Ceremony Backdrop Thayer Allyson Gowdy A Weddings colleague created a backdrop for the ceremony by cutting palm leaves in shades of gray and pinning them to canvas. The motif was inspired by the venue's wallpaper. 14 of 39 The Rings Thayer Allyson Gowdy Instead of carrying a pillow, the ring bearers kept the wedding bands in a vintage cigarette case. 15 of 39 Festive Napkins Thayer Allyson Gowdy Cocktail napkins from For Your Party were foil-stamped with the phrase "Kiss a groom," the lyrics from "September," which celebrate the gents' wedding date, and a quote from the musical All That Jazz. 16 of 39 Drinks During Intermission Thayer Allyson Gowdy Cocktails on offer included a dirty martini, a Salerno Spritz (orange liqueur and Champagne), and a manhattan made with Hudson Valley bourbon. Everyone enjoyed an intermission with cocktail hour and passed hors d'oeuvres—until the waiters dropped their trays and kicked off a flash mob to "Let's Have a Kiki" that had the crowd grooving into the reception room. 17 of 39 The Guestbook Thayer Allyson Gowdy Attendees wrote well wishes for the newlyweds in a vintage book found on eBay. 18 of 39 The Fare Thayer Allyson Gowdy The grooms wanted people to keep dancing and mingling all night, so they served small plates instead of a sit-down dinner. One dish that won rave reviews was the braised short ribs over polenta. 19 of 39 Small Plates Thayer Allyson Gowdy Caterer Betty Brooklyn prepared bite-size treats including grilled cheese minis in a cup of tomato soup. 20 of 39 Tasty Treats Thayer Allyson Gowdy Another mini-meal: sea bass fillet with seasonal vegetables. 21 of 39 Seasonal Food Thayer Allyson Gowdy Butternut squash risotto with roasted Brussels sprouts and sage made for an appropriately autumnal hors d'oeuvre. 22 of 39 Delicacies on Ice Love Life images Tables were set with caviar served in dishes made of ice by Shintaro Okamoto. 23 of 39 The Wedding Party Thayer Allyson Gowdy The couple's close friends paused for a portrait on a vintage sofa rented from Patina Rentals. Old-school lounges were set up so guests could relax during the reception. 24 of 39 The Decorations The space was decorated with white dahlias set in clear or gold vases and loads and loads of gray candles in varying sizes. 25 of 39 Cheese Spreads Thayer Allyson Gowdy Throughout the room, stations with cheese and charcuterie were set out for everyone to enjoy. 26 of 39 A Special Dance Thayer Allyson Gowdy In homage to the pair's Texas roots, performers from their favorite bar, Flaming Saddles, did a country line dance during the party. 27 of 39 Spectacular Signage Thayer Allyson Gowdy The duo gave their spectacle great reviews with a vinyl decal above the bar. It was designed by Alonzo Felix and printed by Shutterfly. 28 of 39 Coworkers and Friends Thayer Allyson Gowdy Anthony with Martha Stewart Weddings editorial director, Darcy Miller. The two have worked together for over a decade. 29 of 39 The Vibe Thayer Allyson Gowdy "We wanted a party that evoked the feel of a 1940s supper club, with manhattans, martinis, and lots of dancing and laughter," says Anthony. 30 of 39 A Photo With Martha Thayer Allyson Gowdy The newlyweds snapped a photo with guest Martha Stewart. 31 of 39 Keepsake Drawings Thayer Allyson Gowdy As part of the favors (and a fun activity), guests had their portraits drawn by Darcy, who is known for her illustrations, and calligraphed by Deborah Nadel Design. 32 of 39 The Dancing Thayer Allyson Gowdy Three choreographed performances took place during the dance-heavy reception. Listen to Anthony and Rusty’s Wedding Playlist 33 of 39 A Night of Fun Thayer Allyson Gowdy After everyone had had a chance to eat, drink, and be merry on the dance floor, all 220 guests headed outside to watch the guys attack a giant silver diamond-shaped piñata full of glow jewelry, sunglasses, and party hats. The boogying continued until the grand finale: a screening of a music video version of the party. Anthony and Rusty had hired a videographer to film the party and live-edit throughout the night. It captured the feeling of the entire affair, which was amazing and completely over the top—everything they wanted their big gay Martha Stewart wedding to be. See Anthony and Rusty’s Wedding Video 34 of 39 A Boozy Treat Thayer Allyson Gowdy During the epic reception, guests enjoyed grown-up cotton candy via Spin-Spun, which was flavored with bourbon. 35 of 39 A Sweet Ending Thayer Allyson Gowdy Friend and pastry chef Sylvia Weinstock made two chocolate buttercream–covered confections: one with chocolate on the inside for Anthony and the other with peanut butter for Rusty. "Instead of one wedding cake, we wanted two identical versions with different flavors to reflect our personalities," Anthony says. A variety of bite-size chocolate treats from One Girl Cookies and Jacques Torres (Anthony's previous employer) were also served. 36 of 39 Cheers to the Couple Thayer Allyson Gowdy As her gift, Darcy reinterpreted the pair's favorite drink, a vodka-soda, to give as favors. The to-go bottles were decorated with her drawings of the grooms, with their arms cut out so their likenesses could clink glasses. 37 of 39 The Photobooth Love Life images Guests mugged for the camera in the photo booth. 38 of 39 Apropros Props unknown Retro props like fedoras, martini glasses, pearls, and a cane were on hand for guests to pose with in the photo booth by Love Life Images. 39 of 39 Sources Location: 501 Union Event Coordination: Debi Lilly of A Perfect Event Catering: Betty Brooklyn Photography: Thayer Allyson Gowdy Videography: Switzerfilm Stationery: Cheree Berry Paper Calligraphy: Barbara Callow (invitations); Deborah Nadel Design (illustrated cards) Desserts: Jacques Torres Chocolates (chocolates); One Girl Cookies (cookies); Sylvia Weinstock Cakes (cakes) Music: DJ Neza for Troy Curtis Group Rentals: Patina Vintage Rentals; BBJ Linen; Broadway Party Rentals Menswear: J. Hilburn Lighting: Bentley Meeker Transportation: Gray Line New York (tour bus) Photo Booth: Love Life Images Ice DJ Booth: Okamoto Studio Custom Cocktail Napkins and Matches: For Your Party Cotton Candy: Spin-Spun Caviar: Northern Divine Cheese and Charcuterie: Murray's Cheese Pillar and Votive Candles: Creative Candles Tiny Dancers' Dresses: Crewcuts Ring Bearers' Attire: (On girl) Bonpoint shirt and skirt; Zara jacket and socks. (On boy) Zara shirt and pants; Pumpkin Patch Kids jacket; Elephantito shoes Attendant Gifts: Dogeared necklaces; PlayForever toy car Cigarette Case (as ring box): vintage from Ruby Lane Favors: Fever Tree tonic water; Tito's Vodka Porcelain Vases: Middle Kingdom Wine and Liquor: Moët & Chandon; Voga Italia Wine; William Grant & Sons Ceremony Backdrop Fabric: Rose Brand Paper for Programs: Paper-Source Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit