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Editorial Guidelines Updated on September 20, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Photo: Marcus Nilsson 01 of 31 Erin Fetherston and Gabe Saporta Marcus Nilsson Fashion designer Erin Fetherston met rock star Gabe Saporta at a red-carpet fashion gala in the fall of 2010. Sparks flew, and the pair began a fairy-tale romance that culminated in an engagement a year-and-a-half later, while they were vacationing in Barbados. When they imagined their wedding, Erin and Gabe pictured a romantic, old-world setting. Together (and with a little help from us), they created just that, using the verdant woods of Barbados as their backdrop. 02 of 31 On-Theme Invitations Marcus Nilsson Erin looked to old storybook illustrations for invite inspiration. See More Unique Wedding Invitations 03 of 31 The Bride's Blooms Marcus Nilsson Erin, dressed in a gown of her own designs and Jimmy Choo shoes, carried a bouquet of peonies, sahara and majolica spray roses, parrot tulips, and jasmine. See More Bouquets from Real Weddings 04 of 31 The Dress-Code Marcus Nilsson "I knew it would be potentially controversial, but I encouraged a pastel dress code," Erin said. "In the end, the guests looked great—especially the men!" 05 of 31 A Sweet Announcement Marcus Nilsson Instead of a bridal party, the couple enlisted their friends and family's children to lead Erin them down the aisle. These cherubic flower girls, who wore Olive and Fern dresses, announced the bride's arrival with a cloth banner that read, "On this day in May ..." See More Flower Girl Ideas 06 of 31 Flower Girl Accessories Marcus Nilsson Vintage silk cherry blossoms and gold paper leaves bloomed on hair wreaths made for her pint-sized bridal attendants. 07 of 31 Oh Boy! Marcus Nilsson A ring bearer carried a sign that read, "Hip Hip Hooray" in gold lettering. 08 of 31 The Boutonnieres Marcus Nilsson While Gabe didn't have official groomsmen, his close male friends and family wore boutonnieres made from local white larkspur, jasmine, and eucalyptus seedlings. See More Boutonnieres 09 of 31 Ready for the Ceremony Marcus Nilsson Guests gathered pre-ceremony outside the stone walls of St. Nicholas Abbey, a 350-year-old rum distillery and the couple's venue. 10 of 31 Parental Guidance Marcus Nilsson Gabe, wearing an all-white Gieves and Hawkes suit (Prince William's wedding day choice, too) and Gucci shoes, walked with his parents down the aisle. 11 of 31 A Twist On Tradition Marcus Nilsson "In a traditional Jewish ceremony, there are no vows," Erin says. "But we really wanted to say, 'I do.'" Gabe ad libbed a bit. "The officiant asked, 'Will you always love and cherish your wife?' and Gabe said, 'And I'll always have your back and I'll always protect you, and you'll never be alone,'" said Erin. 12 of 31 Traditional Touches Marcus Nilsson As part of the couple's Jewish ceremony, Erin circled her groom seven times. 13 of 31 The Newlyweds Marcus Nilsson Erin and Gabe strolled down the aisle post-ceremony to the a string quartet playing the Beatles' "All You Need Is Love." 14 of 31 Cocktail Hour Marcus Nilsson Decked out in a pastel palette, the couple's friends and family enjoyed hors d'oeuvres and pink-tinged Belaire Rare Rose. 15 of 31 Island Drinks Marcus Nilsson Dark and Stormies and mojitos were a cocktail-hour nod to the venue's rum-steeped history. See More Signature Drinks from Real Weddings 16 of 31 Sipping Stars Marcus Nilsson Two of the bride's cousins flanked photographer Ellen von Unwerth (camera in hand) during cocktail hour. 17 of 31 Welcome to the Jungle Marcus Nilsson The couple's wedding photographer, Nancy Neil, took photos of the stylish crowd as they gathered in the courtyard for champagne. 18 of 31 Unique Seating Cards Marcus Nilsson Escort cards were designed as old-fashioned dance cards; pencils, attached with ribbons, encouraged guests to schedule spins. 19 of 31 Dreamy Decor Marcus Nilsson Ivy and grapevines cascaded down the walls of the reception tent. "It was amazing," Erin said. "I wanted to live in that tent forever!" Ranunculus, sahara and majolica spray roses, tulips, lisianthus, carnations, eucalyptus, jasmine, and peonies made up the centerpieces. See More Classic Wedding Centerpieces 20 of 31 Gilded Details Marcus Nilsson Guests sipped Champagne underneath gold paper-leaf chandeliers. See More Golden Wedding Details 21 of 31 For the Little Ones Bryan Gardner At the kids' table, a laser-cut accordian-style booklet by Cutture London displayed the couple's love story. See More Kids' Table Ideas 22 of 31 Child's Play Marcus Nilsson Spray-painted animal masks and drawing paper also provided dinnertime entertainment for the pint-sized bridal party. 23 of 31 The First Dance Marcus Nilsson The newlyweds adorably waltzed to "Someday My Prince Will Come" from Disney's 1937 animated film, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. "Taking a waltz lesson was a highlight of the planning," Erin said. "Gabe is such an elegant ballroom dancer. So princely!" See More First Dance Songs from Real Weddings 24 of 31 Father-Daughter Dance Marcus Nilsson Erin and her dad took a spin (and shared a hug) on the dance floor. See More Father-Daughter Dance Songs 25 of 31 The Cake Marcus Nilsson Sugar cherry-blossom flowers adorned the four-tier coconut cake with coconut filling. See More Sugar-Flower Wedding Cakes 26 of 31 Added Perk Marcus Nilsson Coffee beans topped dark chocolate mousse as part of the delicious dessert spread by Patisserie Flindt. See More Chocolate Wedding Ideas 27 of 31 Berry Nice Marcus Nilsson Patisserie Flindt also baked raspberry tartlets to round out the sweets table. 28 of 31 Photo Booth Fun Guests squeezed into the photo booth, which was designed to look like a page from an antique storybook. Here, James Van Der Beek and his wife, Kimberly, stike a playfully dramatic pose. 29 of 31 Golden Guestbook Marcus Nilsson Friends and family wrote their favorite Erin and Gabe stories in a book titled "Tales of the Past." Hopes for the new couple went in one labeled, "Wishes for the Future." 30 of 31 Favors with Flair Marcus Nilsson Attendees got a boozy to-go treat: local rum truffles in boxes paper-wrapped to look like book spines. See More Favors from Real Weddings 31 of 31 Sources Marcus Nilsson Location: St. Nicholas Abbey Event Planning: Ann David of David Reinhard Events; Emma Corrie Designs Catering: Cin Cin By The Sea Flowers and Event Design: Lewis Miller Design Photography: Nancy Neil Printing: Spark Letterpress Calligraphy: Cheryl Tefft of Calligraphics Cake, Desserts and Favors: Carsten Flindt of Patisserie Flindt Music: The Barbados String Quartet (ceremony); Debbie Reifer (dinner); NexCyx (reception) Tents and Rentals: Ellco Rentals; Quality Occasions Hair: Stefani Padilla of Cabin 207 Makeup: Erin Green for Chanel/ Judy Casey Inc.; Luc Bouchard for M.A.C. Cosmetics Transportation: Facilitator Unlimited Lighting: DB Productions Cocktail Napkins: ForYourParty Parasols: Bella Umbrella Ribbons: Mokuba New York Book Binding Kits: Paper Source Foil Transfer: Image Transfers Gold Paper: Envelopments Pencils: Graphite Pen & Pencil Company Chandeliers: Timothy Oulton Chandeliers Photobooth Backdrop Printing: Spoonflower Eyelets: American Crafts Elements Hotel: Coral Reef Club Videography: Brendan Walter of Crush Management Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit