Skip to content

Top Navigation

Martha Stewart Martha Stewart
  • FOOD
  • HOLIDAYS
  • ENTERTAINING
  • HOME
  • GARDENING
  • CLEANING & ORGANIZING
  • WEDDINGS
  • SHOP
  • DIY
  • BEAUTY & WELLNESS
  • LIFE
  • NEWS
  • MARTHA'S BLOG
  • About Us

Profile Menu

Martha's Blog
Your Account

Account

  • Join Now
  • Email Preferences
  • Newsletter
  • Manage Your Subscription this link opens in a new tab
  • Manage Your Subscription this link opens in a new tab
  • Contact Us
  • Your Content
  • Logout

More

  • Enter to Win $10,000 to Makeover Your Home!
  • Martha's Blog
  • Weddings
Login
Pin FB

Explore Martha Stewart

Martha Stewart Martha Stewart
  • Explore

    Explore

    • Tips on Organizing Your Home

      Tips on Organizing Your Home

      From the kitchen and bathroom to the bedroom and laundry room, here are 40 ways to simplify, streamline, and banish clutter throughout the house. Read More
    • These Are the Paint Colors You'll See Everywhere in 2022

      These Are the Paint Colors You'll See Everywhere in 2022

      Upgrade your spaces with new—and old—classics. Read More
    • 39 Make-Ahead Holiday Dishes That Are Perfect for Festive Family Gatherings

      39 Make-Ahead Holiday Dishes That Are Perfect for Festive Family Gatherings

      These classic recipes will help you get a head start on the festivities. Read More
  • FOOD

    FOOD

    See All FOOD
    • Breakfast & Brunch Recipes
    • Lunch Recipes
    • Dinner Recipes
    • Appetizers & Snacks
    • Dessert Recipes
    • Drink Recipes
    • Salad Recipes
    • Side Dishes
    • Soup Recipes
    • Healthy Recipes
    • Quick & Easy Recipes
    • Vegetarian Recipes
    • Cooking How-Tos
    • Baking
    • Menu Planning
    • Food News & Trends
    • Wine
    • Mastering the Holiday Meal
    • What's for Dinner
    • All Recipes
  • HOLIDAYS

    HOLIDAYS

    See All HOLIDAYS
    All of Our Best Valentine's Day Crafts to Make from the Heart

    All of Our Best Valentine's Day Crafts to Make from the Heart

    Express your love with handmade Valentine's crafts like paper cards, gift ideas, and decorations.
    • Valentine's Day
    • St. Patricks Day
    • Passover
    • Easter
    • Mother's Day
    • Father's Day
    • Fourth of July
    • Halloween
    • Thanksgiving
    • Hanukkah
    • Christmas
    • New Year's Eve
  • ENTERTAINING

    ENTERTAINING

    See All ENTERTAINING
    Will We Entertain Differently in 2022? These Are the New Trends Hostesses Should Bookmark

    Will We Entertain Differently in 2022? These Are the New Trends Hostesses Should Bookmark

    Secure your role as the host with the absolute most.
    • Seasonal Entertaining & Decorating
    • Baby Shower Ideas
    • Dinner Party Ideas
    • You're Invited
  • HOME

    HOME

    See All HOME
    How to Hang and Arrange Pictures

    How to Hang and Arrange Pictures

    Amp up your home décor with perfectly placed frames.
    • Home Design & Decor
    • Paint Colors & Palettes
    • DIY Home Projects
    • The Well-Kept Home
  • GARDENING

    GARDENING

    See All GARDENING
    Six Houseplant Mistakes to Avoid This Winter

    Six Houseplant Mistakes to Avoid This Winter

    Don't let your varieties fall victim to the perils of poor cold-weather maintenance.
    • Container Gardening
    • Flower Gardens
    • Houseplants
    • Landscaping
    • Vegetable Gardens
  • CLEANING & ORGANIZING

    CLEANING & ORGANIZING

    How to Deep Clean Your Oven with Baking Soda

    How to Deep Clean Your Oven with Baking Soda

    Our easy tips will make this cleaning task a lot less daunting.
    • Cleaning
    • Storage & Organization
    • Laundry & Linens
  • WEDDINGS

    WEDDINGS

    See All WEDDINGS
    Your Ultimate Wedding-Planning Timeline

    Your Ultimate Wedding-Planning Timeline

    Ready, set, go! Our no-nonsense guide will help you learn how to plan your wedding like a pro.
    • Real Weddings
    • Wedding Party
    • Wedding Planning & Advice
    • Wedding Ceremony & Reception
    • Wedding Jewelry
    • Dresses & Style
    • Wedding Beauty & Wellness
    • Wedding Registry
    • Wedding Showers & Parties
    • Love & Marriage
    • Wedding Travel
  • SHOP
  • DIY

    DIY

    See All DIY
    How to Knit: A Beginner's Step-by-Step Guide

    How to Knit: A Beginner's Step-by-Step Guide

    Learn how to knit your own mittens, hats, scarves, and more. We'll take you through the step-by-step instructions and teach you how to cast on, knit, purl, and cast off.
    • Dyeing
    • Holiday Crafts
    • Kids' Crafts
    • Knitting
    • Paper Crafts
    • Sewing
    • Rescue & Revamp
  • BEAUTY & WELLNESS

    BEAUTY & WELLNESS

    Your Complete Guide to Restoring Moisture Back Into Your Skin

    Your Complete Guide to Restoring Moisture Back Into Your Skin

    Take a multi-pronged approach if you're experiencing excess dryness.
    • Beauty
    • Health & Wellness
    • Live Well
  • LIFE

    LIFE

    See All LIFE
    • Family
    • Pets
    • Travel
    • Net Worth
  • NEWS
  • MARTHA'S BLOG
  • About Us

Profile Menu

Martha's Blog
Your Account

Account

  • Join Now
  • Email Preferences
  • Newsletter
  • Manage Your Subscription this link opens in a new tab
  • Manage Your Subscription this link opens in a new tab
  • Contact Us
  • Your Content
  • Logout

More

  • Enter to Win $10,000 to Makeover Your Home!
  • Martha's Blog
  • Weddings
Login
Sweepstakes

Follow Us

  1. marthastewart.com
  2. Weddings
  3. Real Weddings
  4. A Charming Hometown Wedding for Irby and Adam
Martha Stewart Weddings

A Charming Hometown Wedding for Irby and Adam

Skip gallery slides
Pin
irby-adam-wedding-couple-104-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

This South Carolina bash boasted Southern accents and sweet personal touches.

Start Slideshow

1 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Couple

irby-adam-wedding-couple-90-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Hartsville, South Carolina, sweethearts Irby Haynes and Adam DuBose met in high school. A trip that they both attended during their senior year ignited a romance that continued through college. Nine years later, they tied the knot in their hometown at Drengaelen House. The Southern affair celebrated faith, family, and food, with a special nod to the bride's late father, whose birthday coincided with the wedding date of June 7, 2014. In celebrating her father's life, as well as Irby and Adam's new one together, the late-afternoon soirée was a special event to remember, complete with personal touches around every corner.

1 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement

2 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Stationery Suite

irby-adam-wedding-invite-27-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Jessica Rourke, who planned the wedding, also designed the invitation through her stationery company, Lady Letterpress. The custom suite incorporated calligraphy by Lydia Robins Hendrix, gray ink, and a white wax seal with the shape of a fern on it.

2 of 24

3 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Location

irby-adam-wedding-venue-3-s111660-1014-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

The bride and groom selected Drengaelen House for its location—it was easily accessible for both families—and its beauty (its name translates to "among the trees"). Dating back nearly 100 years, the local spot on the campus, where the bride's parents went to college, provided an idyllic backdrop for the nuptials and their muted, romantic color palette.

3 of 24

Advertisement

4 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The First Look

irby-adam-wedding-firstlook-88-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Adam and Irby decided early on in the planning process that they would do a first look. "In retrospect, I love the time we were able to spend together before the ceremony," Irby says. "The pictures taken by our photographers, Landon Jacob, will always hold a special place in our hearts."

4 of 24

5 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Fashions

irby-adam-wedding-couple-104-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Adam looked sharp in a classic gray suit and silver tie. Irby wore a Monique Lhuillier silk gown in a subtle blush tone. "I love how the dress seemed to shift colors depending on the lighting," she recalls. "Sometimes you could detect a hint of gold, sometimes a bit of ivory." After trying on a number of options, she found this winning number at Maddison Row, a boutique in Charleston.

5 of 24

6 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Rings

irby-adam-wedding-rings-8-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Adam designed the platinum engagement ring, which has a pear-shaped diamond with a rose gold halo surrounding it. For the wedding band, Irby selected a thin rose gold number, and Adam went for a simple white gold classic.

6 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement

7 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Bridal Bouquet

irby-adam-wedding-bouquet-115-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Irby carried a wild and loose arrangement of garden roses, peonies, and clematis. The cascading bouquet perfectly complemented her blush gown.

7 of 24

8 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Bridesmaids

irby-adam-wedding-bridesmaids-141-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

The bridesmaids wore short ivory dresses in a mix of textures from Anthropologie, Bhldn, and J.Crew.

8 of 24

9 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Boutonnieres

irby-adam-wedding-bouts-12-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Guys affixed boutonnieres of rosemary, flower buds, and petit sprigs of greenery to their lapels. 

9 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement

10 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Ceremony Setting

Biodegradable Serveware
Credit: Landon Jacob

A small statue of Michelangelo's David on the grounds of the venue was incorporated into the décor for the ceremony, with large floral arrangements set around it to the entrance of the aisle.

10 of 24

11 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Ceremony

irby-adam-wedding-ceremony-176-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

The wedding kicked off with a ceremony on the front lawn under a large tree. A cellist and guitarist performed and sang a couple of traditional tunes and some more modern ones as well. Both the bride and groom recall the walk down the aisle as the most memorable (and perhaps emotional) moment of the day. The ceremony reflected the couple's Christian faith, with the pair offering communion, then exchanging traditional vows and sealing it with a kiss as husband and wife. 

11 of 24

12 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

Cocktail Hour

irby-adam-wedding-appetizers-221-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Following the ceremony, the 250 guests were greeted with sweet tea and water on silver trays, and one of the groom's favorite southern staples: chicken and waffles.

12 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement

13 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

Southern Sips

irby-adam-wedding-cocktailhour-229-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

In addition to tasty bites, a signature cocktail dubbed the "Charleston Mule" was served during the alfresco cocktail hour. The southern take on the classic drink was made using ingredients local to South Carolina (Striped Pig Distillery vodka and Cannonborough ginger beer soda).

13 of 24

14 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

A Touch of Greenery

irby-adam-wedding-greenery-218-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Delicate ferns were strung up behind the bar for a decorative accent.

14 of 24

15 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

Proud Papa

irby-adam-wedding-dad-203-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Along with her mom, Irby's grandfather, whom she calls Papa, walked her down the aisle. He also danced with her to "Butterfly Kisses" by Bob Carlisle during the reception. The song choice was easy and obvious; he would often play the track in his truck's tape player when he picked her up from the bus stop after school. "I remember him telling me we'd dance to it at my wedding one day, and we did," Irby says.

15 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement

16 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Reception

irby-adam-wedding-reception-215-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

A mix of long, rectangular tables and rounds were set for dinner under a tent frame swathed with sheer fabric and illuminated with string lights and chandeliers.

16 of 24

17 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Menu

irby-adam-wedding-menu-13-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

The menu was calligraphed by Lydia Robins Hendrix on an oversized poster, framed by a fresh wreath constructed by Fern Studio. The duo served fare that reflected their Southern roots and love of delectable cuisine. The crowd favorite was a fried green tomato station, where the made-to-order dish was served with bacon aioli and buttermilk ranch dressing. Also on the menu? Brisket and pulled pork served with sweet tea vodka BBQ sauce and mustard BBQ sauce, bread-and-butter pickles, and homemade biscuits.

17 of 24

18 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Centerpieces

irby-adam-wedding-candles-210-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Arrangements of roses, Queen Anne's lace, peonies, and astilbe adorned each table, along with a variety of candle holders. 

18 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement

19 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Place Settings

irby-adam-wedding-table-205-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Guests found their seats thanks to gray cards calligraphed with their names and topped with the same wax seals that enclosed the invites.

19 of 24

20 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The First Dance

irby-adam-wedding-dance-239-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Ingrid Michaelson's version of the Elvis classic "I Can't Help Falling in Love With You" played as the couple danced together for the first time as newlyweds. One of the bride's favorite memories of the wedding-planning process was playing the song on their home's back deck and practicing the first dance.

20 of 24

21 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

Dancing With Mom

irby-adam-wedding-dance-254-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Adam and his mother swayed to "Godspeed" by the Dixie Chicks.

21 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement

22 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

The Wedding Cake

irby-adam-wedding-cake-24-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

The three-tier cake was piped in an elegant pattern and boasted three different flavors: pineapple, strawberry, and chocolate. A red velvet cake was also served to guests.

22 of 24

23 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

Happy Treats

irby-adam-wedding-cookies-209-s111660-1014.jpg
Credit: Landon Jacob

Irby's grandmother, known as Happy, is famous for her chocolate chip cookies and makes them for everyone. When the bride was thinking of what the wedding favor would be, she could think of no better token of thanks than some of the noteworthy cookies. Grandma was happy to bake the sweets, which were packaged in custom baggies.

23 of 24

24 of 24

Pin
Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message

Sources

Pink and Leather Wedding Shoes
Credit: Landon Jacob

Photography: Landon Jacob Photography 

Location: The Drengaelen House

Event Planning: Jessica Rourke

Catering: Spotted Salamander Catering

Florist: Fern Studio Floral and Event Design

Videography: Caravan Cinema

Stationery: Lady Letterpress

Calligraphy: Lydia Robins Hendrix

Cake: Buttercream

Reception Music: Ross Holmes Band

Rentals: Party Reflections

Hair and Makeup: MiKel Rumsey

24 of 24

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement
Replay gallery

Share the Gallery

Pinterest Facebook

Up Next

    Share the Gallery

    Pinterest Facebook
    `
    Martha Stewart Weddings
    View All
    • What Should You Wear to a Low-Key Bridal Shower?
    • Brooklyn Beckham Just Revealed How He Felt the Moment He Saw Nicola Peltz in Her Wedding Dress
    • Meghan Markle and Prince Harry Shared a Sweet Kiss at His Polo Match
    • Is it OK for a Bridesmaid to RSVP No to a Destination Bachelorette Party Invitation?
    Trending Videos
    Advertisement
    Skip slide summaries

    Everything in This Slideshow

    Advertisement

    View All

    1 of 24 The Couple
    2 of 24 The Stationery Suite
    3 of 24 The Location
    4 of 24 The First Look
    5 of 24 The Fashions
    6 of 24 The Rings
    7 of 24 The Bridal Bouquet
    8 of 24 The Bridesmaids
    9 of 24 The Boutonnieres
    10 of 24 The Ceremony Setting
    11 of 24 The Ceremony
    12 of 24 Cocktail Hour
    13 of 24 Southern Sips
    14 of 24 A Touch of Greenery
    15 of 24 Proud Papa
    16 of 24 The Reception
    17 of 24 The Menu
    18 of 24 The Centerpieces
    19 of 24 The Place Settings
    20 of 24 The First Dance
    21 of 24 Dancing With Mom
    22 of 24 The Wedding Cake
    23 of 24 Happy Treats
    24 of 24 Sources

    Share & More

    Facebook Tweet Email Send Text Message
    Martha Stewart

    Learn More

    • Contact Us
    • Customer Service
    • Media Kit
    • Martha's Blog
    • Advertise
    • Content Licensing
    • FAQ
    • Corporate
    • International
    • Accolades this link opens in a new tab

    Connect

    Follow Us
    Subscribe to Our Newsletter
    Sign Up
    MeredithMartha Stewart is part of the Meredith Home Group. © Copyright 2022 Meredith Corporation. All Rights Reserved. Privacy Policythis link opens in a new tab Terms of Servicethis link opens in a new tab Ad Choicesthis link opens in a new tab California Do Not Sellthis link opens a modal window Web Accessibilitythis link opens in a new tab
    © Copyright Martha Stewart. All rights reserved. Printed from https://www.marthastewart.com

    Sign in

    View image

    A Charming Hometown Wedding for Irby and Adam
    this link is to an external site that may or may not meet accessibility guidelines.