Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Weddings Real Weddings Real Wedding: Alexa and Matthew, Napa, California By Martha Stewart Editors Martha Stewart Editors Facebook Instagram Twitter Website An article attributed to "Martha Stewart Editors" indicates when several writers and editors have contributed to an article over the years. These collaborations allow us to provide you with the most accurate, up-to-date, and comprehensive information available.The Martha Stewart team aims to teach and inspire readers daily with tested-until-perfected recipes, creative DIY projects, and elevated home and entertaining ideas. They are experts in their fields who research, create, and test the best ways to help readers design the life they want. The joy is in the doing. Editorial Guidelines Updated on September 20, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos 01 of 23 Alexa and Matthew Alexa and Matthew began dating while they were students at Reed College in Portland, Oregon. After six years and a move to San Francisco, the couple tied the knot in front of 175 guests at the picturesque Carneros Inn, in Napa Valley, California. Opting out of a themed wedding, the couple's vision resulted in an eclectic mix of elements that playfully sparred with the venue's rustic elegance. Matt, in Ermenegildo Zegna, and Alexa, in Monique Lhuillier, shared a kiss behind the orchard where they said "I do." 02 of 23 The Stationery Bryan Gardner A vintage photo of Napa Valley was the precursor to invitations letterpressed with geometric motifs in creamy tones. See More Rustic Wedding Invitations 03 of 23 Scenic View An expanse of fruiting vines and Napa Valley scenery surrounded the ceremony site at The Carneros Inn. 04 of 23 Guideposts Stenciled wooden boards let friends and family know they'd come to the right spot. Other signs between the ceremony and cocktail-hour locations encouraged, "Keep Going" and "Almost There." 05 of 23 Programs Like all the other paper goods, the cards -- which announced the ceremony order on one side and the wedding party on the other -- featured a triangular pattern. See More Ceremony Programs 06 of 23 Preceremony Shots Before their vows, Alexa and Matt sat in anticipation on the patio outside their cottage suite. "We were near the apple orchard and could hear our guitarist tuning up and all the guests arriving," says the bride. 07 of 23 The Dress Alexa's gown combined the mesh collar of one frock with the body of another. 08 of 23 A Bountiful Boutonniere Matt's lapel was adorned with a little bundle of olive leaf, seeded eucalyptus, passion-vine tendrils, silver brunia, and local greenery, all cinched with a piece of frayed muslin. See More Boutonnieres 09 of 23 Father of the Bride Alexa's dad escorted her down the aisle to "Sea of Love," performed by Matt's jazz guitar teacher, Bruno Pelletier-Bacquaert. 10 of 23 Bright Beginnings The ceremony included a reading of the couple's favorite Pablo Neruda poem, "Sonnet 17," by the maid of honor. 11 of 23 Bridal Party All the attendants wore shades of gray. Alexa gifted each girl with a geode necklace from Etsy vendor Solis Jewelry. See More Bridesmaids from Real Weddings 12 of 23 Bridesmaid Style These rough-hewn geode pendants contrasted with lush bouquets of white heirloom roses, blushing bride, seeded eucalyptus, and white ranunculus wrapped with muslin. 13 of 23 Esteemed Guest Alexa's natty grandfather -- who traveled from Pala, California, where he farms avocados and citrus -- enjoyed a glass of bubbly during the reception. 14 of 23 Rustic Centerpieces Metal sap buckets overflowed with ranunculus, blushing bride, scabiosa pods, pineapple mint, seeded eucalyptus, and passion vine. The pale flower arrangements shared the space with bell jars, crystals, and mounds of salt. See More Rustic Centerpieces 15 of 23 Seats of Honor Noa Azoulay Photography Garlands of dip-dyed watercolor-paper triangles singled out the newlyweds' spots. See More Chair Decor Ideas 16 of 23 Local Favors Sage honey from a local farm was given in jars sporting custom labels. 17 of 23 Seating Arrangements Escort cards, dangling on frayed strips of gray linen tied to the branches of a lush fig tree just outside the dining room, informed loved ones of their table numbers. 18 of 23 The Reception "Rather than sitting by ourselves, we laid out a long table in the center of the room so we could be surrounded by friends and family," says Alexa. "It was good to be part of the action!" On the tabletops, ikat-patterned napkins brought a punch of color to gray table linens. 19 of 23 Guest Book Attendees left their marks on a custom-made poster, which the couple framed and hung in their apartment after the big day. See More Guestbook Ideas 20 of 23 Sweet Spread Along with a small vanilla cake, these chocolate-mousse cups, berry tartlets, and panna cottas tempted guests. See More Dessert Tables from Real Weddings 21 of 23 First Dance Alexa and Matt spun gracefully around to "All Over Again," by Sharon Jones and the Dap-Kings. "We took some basic ballroom-dancing lessons in San Francisco," Alexa says. "I was afraid I would trip over my dress!" See More First Dance Songs from Real Weddings 22 of 23 Just Hitched The newlyweds shared an intimate moment framed by Napa's famous vine-covered hills. 23 of 23 Sources Location, Catering, and Cake: The Carneros Inn Event Planning, Design, and Flowers: Paige Appel and Kelly Harris of Bash, Please Bride's Gown: Monique Lhuillier Hair Ornament: Jennifer Behr Groom's Suit: Ermenegildo Zegna Stationery: Bella Figura Rentals: Wine Country Party & Events Photography: Feather Love Photography Band: Bruno Pelletier-Bacquaert DJ: The Flashdance Photo Booth: Smilebooth Bride's Shoes: Loeffler Randall Groom's Shoes: Allen Edmonds Junior Bridesmaid Dresses: Zoe Ltd. Groomsmen's Ties: Nordstrom Hair: Rachel Gardea at The Powder Room Makeup: Audrey Crandell of Glowing Bridal Honey Favors: Hurley Farms Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit