Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Spring Weddings A Farm Wedding with Vineyard Charm By Martha Stewart Editors Martha Stewart Editors Facebook Instagram Twitter Website An article attributed to "Martha Stewart Editors" indicates when several writers and editors have contributed to an article over the years. These collaborations allow us to provide you with the most accurate, up-to-date, and comprehensive information available.The Martha Stewart team aims to teach and inspire readers daily with tested-until-perfected recipes, creative DIY projects, and elevated home and entertaining ideas. They are experts in their fields who research, create, and test the best ways to help readers design the life they want. The joy is in the doing. Editorial Guidelines Updated on March 27, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Sasha and Tyler Jodi & Kurt Photography A surprise proposal has a dark side: the level of deception involved. "It was so hard to keep lying to the person I would never want to lie to," says Tyler Felous of his elaborate plan to pop the question to Sasha Taskier on a trip to Napa Valley. "I actually asked him at one point, 'Are you going to propose to me or not?' and he said, 'No, sorry, I'm not,'" Sasha laughs. "I was so disappointed! And he's not usually a good liar, which is why I believed him." Then he got down on one knee at the top of a bell tower at Groth Vineyards, and she tearfully said yes. That wasn't all, though. Afterward they went to the tasting room, which was crowded with many of their relatives—Tyler had secretly summoned them from all over the country. "I didn't have a clue!" Sasha marvels. "It was a pretty spectacular thing." From then on, it was clear the nuptials would be a family affair. The two, who met as students at Northwestern University in 2010, launched into wedding plans. First up: finding a venue near Sasha's hometown of Washington, D.C., which made it a destination wedding for the Chicago-based couple. "I had a vision of an amazing barn that was big enough for everyone," says Sasha, and her mother found it—at Riverside on the Potomac, a sprawling farm with views of Sugarloaf Mountain. Sasha, who is finishing a master's degree in family therapy, and Tyler, an entrepreneur, infused their heritage into the menu, including Tyler's father's Greek background (spanakopita, lamb, baklava) and his mother's fifth-generation American roots (mini apple pies)."We wanted to make choices that had meaning," says Sasha. Over Memorial Day weekend in 2015, the two welcomed 230 of their nearest and dearest to a traditional Jewish ceremony under a flower-bedecked chuppah, officiated by a cantor who had a close relationship with the bride's family. The party then proceeded to the stone-and-timber barn. After heartfelt toasts, the couple danced to "La Vie en Rose." "It was such a great night," says Tyler—with all honesty. WATCH SASHA AND TYLER'S WEDDING VIDEO 01 of 13 A Colorful Invitation Jodi & Kurt Photography The flat-printed suite featured watercolor renderings and gold-foil calligraphed accents by Julie Song Ink. 02 of 13 Welcome to Virginia Jodi & Kurt Photography Sasha and her sister put together the welcome boxes, which included a sea-salt and chocolate bar, cashews, water bottles, and a note designed by calligrapher Julie Ha that outlined the weekend's events. 03 of 13 The Bridal Bouquet Jodi & Kurt Photography Coral and red charm peonies and roses were the focal point of the bridal bouquet, made by Holly Heider Chapple, which also included dramatic Japanese red-leaf maple foliage. 04 of 13 Gray Bridesmaids' Dresses Jodi & Kurt Photography The bridesmaids' gowns, by Joanna August, were all in the same color, but each 'maid chose her own style. "I wanted them all to have a look they felt good in," says Sasha. 05 of 13 The Jewish Ceremony Jodi & Kurt Photography A chuppah entwined with coral and red charm peonies and roses framed the couple and their officiant, a cantor and longtime family friend of the bride. Beautiful Chuppah Ideas from Jewish Weddings 06 of 13 Cocktail Hour Jodi & Kurt Photography Oak barrels at the cocktail station were a nod to the couple's engagement venue. 07 of 13 Signature Cocktails Jodi & Kurt Photography The cocktail station, set up on wine barrels to commemorate the vineyard proposal, included signature Old Fashioneds and sangria. 08 of 13 Watercolored Escort Cards Jodi & Kurt Photography Escort cards were pinned to a board outside the barn. Dreamy Watercolor Wedding Ideas 09 of 13 The Reception Jodi & Kurt Photography Both the plates and the glassware were gold-rimmed, which was echoed in the brass bowls and vases that held the centerpieces. 10 of 13 The Table Décor Jodi & Kurt Photography Brass bowls and vases for the centerpieces picked up the gold accents of the plates and glassware. 11 of 13 The First Dance Jodi & Kurt Photography The couple did their first dance to "La Vie en Rose" by Louis Armstrong—but this perfect dip was not practiced, says Sasha. "It was completely improvised. Tyler just led the way, and it worked out!" First Dance Songs from Real Weddings 12 of 13 Dessert Time Jodi & Kurt Photography In lieu of a grand cake, the couple opted for a buffet of sweet treats that included carrot cake, mini pies, and baklava. Amazing Dessert Tables 13 of 13 Sources Jodi & Kurt Photography Location, Riverside on the PotomacEvent planning and design, Kelley Cannon EventsCatering and cake, Occasions CaterersFlowers, Holly Heider Chapple of Hope Flower FarmPhotography, Jodi & Kurt PhotographyInvitations, menus, and table numbers, Julie Song InkCalligraphy, Julie Ha Calligraphy and DesignCeremony and cocktail-hour music, Sam Hill EntertainmentReception music, Bialek's MusicRentals, Something Vintage RentalsVideography, Bowen FilmsBride's gown, Sarah Seven, from Lovely DCBride's shoes, Stuart WeitzmanHair and makeup, Amie Decker BeautyBridesmaids' dresses, Joanna AugustGroom's suit, Armani Made to MeasureGroom's tie, LanvinGroom's shoes, GucciTransportation, Reston LimousineDraping and escort-card wall, Revolution Event Design and ProductionRibbons and flags, Froufrou Chic Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit