Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Weddings Wedding Showers & Parties Rehearsal Dinner Laird and Ross's Festive Rehearsal Dinner With a Southern Buffet By Martha Stewart Editors Martha Stewart Editors Facebook Instagram Twitter Website An article attributed to "Martha Stewart Editors" indicates when several writers and editors have contributed to an article over the years. These collaborations allow us to provide you with the most accurate, up-to-date, and comprehensive information available.The Martha Stewart team aims to teach and inspire readers daily with tested-until-perfected recipes, creative DIY projects, and elevated home and entertaining ideas. They are experts in their fields who research, create, and test the best ways to help readers design the life they want. The joy is in the doing. Editorial Guidelines Updated on September 20, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Laird and Ross Patricia Lyons Photography In 2008, Laird, an event planner, and Ross, a financial analyst, met while watching a University of Virginia football game at a local bar in New York City's West Village. The Virginia natives tied the knot three years later on Sea Island, Georgia. The affair included a weekend full of events, and a festive, casual, and Southern rehearsal dinner, on Friday, August 12, 2011. 01 of 10 The Invitation Patricia Lyons Photography To give guests a hint of what was to come, invites were printed on wood veneer. The rustic yet sophisticated pieces were created by Sideshow Press and calligraphed by Elizabeth Porcher Jones. See More Rustic Invitations 02 of 10 The Location Patricia Lyons Photography The couple welcomed all 100 guests to their rehearsal dinner at the Boathouse of the private residential and golf community of Frederica on Sea Island. 03 of 10 A Surprise Voyage Patricia Lyons Photography The pair and their bridal party went on an hour-long excursion prior to guests' arrival and enjoyed cocktails and quality downtime together. 04 of 10 The Fashions Patricia Lyons Photography For their welcome celebration, Ross wore a Brooks Brothers blazer and linen slacks, Ralph Lauren shoes, and Astor and Black shirt. His bride-to-be donned a floor-length Ralph Lauren Collection dress, and vintage 1940's mother-of-pearl squash blossom necklace. 05 of 10 Rocking the Dock Patricia Lyons Photography "There's nothing but around but water and nature surrounding the boathouse. The view is really serene," Laird said. Attendees were privy to this stunning lake view all evening long. 06 of 10 Sips and Seats Patricia Lyons Photography Laird decided to serve lemonade that doubled as escort cards, after spotting the idea on the Martha Stewart Weddings site. The leaves were calligraphed with invitees' names by Elizabeth Porcher Jones. Get More Seating Display Ideas 07 of 10 The Dining Room Patricia Lyons Photography A calligraphed menu sat at each seat. 08 of 10 The Music Patricia Lyons Photography A bluegrass band entertained guests, who mingled outside before heading in for the seated dinner. 09 of 10 The Dinner Patricia Lyons Photography Following a the first course of Caesar salad, guests went to the adjacent covered porch to load their plates with food from a Southern buffet. It included chicken fried steak, shrimp and grits, slow-cooked beef brisket, marinated tomatoes and cucumbers, creamy horseradish coleslaw, red bliss potato salad, green beans with almonds, and corn muffins. For dessert, a caramel cake was served. Laird often ate this sweet on her August birthday. 10 of 10 Sources Patricia Lyons Photography Photography: Patricia Lyons Photography Event planning and design: Kristin Newman Designs Music: Marsh Grass Hair and makeup: Valecia Lahr and Carrie Lafontaine of Magnolia's Salon and Spa Cake: Sugarbakers Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit