Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Weddings Wedding Ceremony & Reception These Adorable Photos Make the Case for Having a First Look on Your Wedding Day By Emily Platt Emily Platt Emily is a former editorial assistant for MarthaStewart.com. Editorial Guidelines Updated on September 27, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Matthew Ellis of Joshua Dwain Photography The first time you see your future husband or wife on the wedding day, you're bound to be filled with emotion. That's why so many photographers recommend making a mini event out of it. While there's nothing wrong with locking eyes at the ceremony, many couples choose to have a first look before their vow exchange. It's a little more private, it can calm pre-wedding jitters, and it often results in some truly incredible portraits. To show you what we mean, we've gathered some of our favorite first look photos and shared suggestions for optimizing yours. No two couples are exactly the same, and neither are any two first look sessions. In fact, that's what makes them so beautiful. How you and your partner approach your reveal will say a lot about your relationship. In turn, whatever reactions you have in that moment will help personalize your photo album. That being said, we're all for offering inspiration. The following couples' poses, first look venues, and more provide plenty of that, as do our accompanying tips. If you've already decided to incorporate the tradition into your big day, these first look ideas will help you make the most of the special moment. On the other hand, if you're still uncertain if you want one, these snapshots might just sway you. Whatever the case, we hope these images get you excited for your wedding. If they're any indication of how blissful marriage can be, you've got a lot to look forward to. Get More of the Best Wedding Planning Inspiration and Advice 01 of 35 Behind Closed Doors Flora + Fauna Ensure you're hidden until the big reveal. These brides appeared from behind closed doors to amplify the effect. See More Sweet Moments from Same-Sex Weddings 02 of 35 Tears of Joy Rebecca Yale Photography Don't be afraid to shed a tear—the pure emotion only enhanced these photos. Learn Everything You Never Knew You Needed to Know About Tears 03 of 35 Rain or Shine Soul Season Photography Mother Nature is no match for true love. This couple's rainy portrait session proved that their relationship could weather any storm. See More Weddings That Were Beautifully Rainy 04 of 35 Love and Laughter Erich McVey Go ahead and have fun during your first look. This couple's photo session was full of laughter, and the photos were all the more adorable because of it. 05 of 35 Hand in Hand Audra Wrisley Photography These two held hands as they soaked in the moment. We're all for incorporating touch into your first look—it's sure to calm any pre-ceremony nerves. 06 of 35 Mood Lighting Eastlyn Bright Tolle of Eastlyn & Joshua Put some thought into your first look venue: The right lighting can make all the difference (as shown by this couple's romantic spot). 07 of 35 Never Forget Michael and Carina Photography Sight and touch are just pieces of the puzzle, so try using all your senses to fully engrave the moment in memory. This groom kept his ears perked, for example. "When she was walking up behind me, before I turned around, her dress sounded like a ship's sail coming in," he recalled. Get More Genius Tips for Remembering Your Wedding Day 08 of 35 Sweet Embrace Birds of a Feather These two fell into each other's arms during their first look, which made for an amazing photo. 09 of 35 Love's a Journey Greg Finck For a dramatic entrance, try descending down a scenic path to your bride or groom. In this case, that meant a dock ramp. 10 of 35 Buckled Over Howard Photo + Film Let your body do the talking—this groom buckled over with excitement. 11 of 35 Down the Aisle Rachel Driskell These two chose to simulate the bride's walk down the aisle for their first look—only this time, the moment was beautifully private. 12 of 35 Come Prepared Rebecca Yale Photography When the waterworks start, you'll want backup. We recommend bringing along a hankie, as this smart groom did. 13 of 35 All Dressed Up Rebecca Yale Photography Take a cue from these two and get a gander of each other's outfits. After all, the ensembles are bound to be special. 14 of 35 Show Off Meg Smith You have every right to take the opportunity to show off your looks. This couple proved that point further. 15 of 35 Act Natural Shannon Moffit Act like no one's watching for truly authentic images. This couple only had eyes for each other. Get More Helpful Wedding Photography Tips, Straight from the Pros 16 of 35 Calm and Collected Josh and Dana Fernandez There's no better comfort than a hug from your partner before you exchange vows. This photo radiates the ease these two felt as soon as they saw each other. 17 of 35 Practice Patience Elizabeth Austin Photography Ask your photographer to capture your expressions before the first look, too. We're sure this couple will love looking back on the adorable anticipation they felt. 18 of 35 Look of Love Amber Gress This groom's excitement was obvious as he shared a first look with his future wife. 19 of 35 All Smiles T&K Photography These grooms flashed the biggest smiles for the camera—and for each other. 20 of 35 Too Good to Be True Tec Petaja The groom's hand gestures made this photo. 21 of 35 Go the Distance If it feels more comfortable, ask to be photographed from afar. These brides proved the result is just as gorgeous. 22 of 35 Tissue Break Fer Juaristi Make sure you give yourselves enough time to really process what's happening. You never know how many tissue breaks you'll need during the first look portrait session. (We know this couple had a few!) 23 of 35 Love's in the Air Shannen Natasha of The Wedding Artists Collective The emotion was tangible in this first look room. 24 of 35 Catch Your Breath Brandon Kidd Photography Trust us, you'll have all the feels. Take it from this couple. 25 of 35 Lend a Hand Elizabeth Messina Photography This kind groom was quick to dry his bride's happy tears. 26 of 35 Here to Help Clara Rice Photography On the flipside, this bride was there to wipe away her groom's. 27 of 35 In Private Jaka Vinsek Here's another example of the beauty of a little privacy. We're obsessed with this perspective. 28 of 35 Magic Moment Amy Fanton Photography Complements to this photographer, who gorgeously captured the magic of the moment for the soon-to-be husband and wife pictured. 29 of 35 Soak It In Jesse Leake Our best advice is simple: savor the first look. It's one of the only chances you'll get for some "alone time." (And, of course, savor each other—that's what these two did.) 30 of 35 Pure Bliss Lisa Poggi Photography Here are more smiles to warm your heart. We're not crying, you are. 31 of 35 When Jaws Drop Lucky Malone Photography Timing truly is everything—you'll want snapshots of every great expression on your faces. For example, we're glad the photographer captured this bride as her jaw literally dropped. 32 of 35 Mirror, Mirror tPoz Photography We love how these two mirrored one another as they awed over each other's outfits. See More Pretty Same-Sex Wedding Looks from Brides 33 of 35 Sweet Surprise Harwell Photography You might just be surprised by your partner's happy tears—especially if he or she rarely cries! 34 of 35 Overwhelmed with Emotion Juan & Angie This ecstatic groom pointed to his beautiful bride in disbelief. 35 of 35 Winds of Change Rachel Photographs A breeze gave this portrait an ethereal feel (no wonder the groom looked at his bride like she was sent straight from heaven). Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit