Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Weddings Real Weddings An Emerald, Black, and White Wedding with Breathtaking Rooftop Views of Dubai By Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland Blythe is a freelance writer for MarthaStewart.com. Editorial Guidelines Published on June 19, 2019 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Maria Sundin Photography For Vanessa and Abidemi, their wedding was kind of a full-circle moment: In 2016, they met at Vanessa's cousin's wedding, where Abidemi was the best man. They went on their first date the next day and began an across-the-world relationship that had Abidemi flying from his home in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, to visit Vanessa at her home in Dubai. On one of those visits, he planned to surprise her with a proposal at the Dubai Miracle Gardens—but when he couldn't convince her to join him for a night out, he made a quick adjustment. "As I was sitting on the couch, I felt Abidemi's presence and turned to see him on bended knee," says Vanessa. "Because of the excitement and emotion of the moment, all I could hear from what he said was him asking, 'Will you be my wife?'" Vanessa and Abidemi decided to host their celebration in Dubai—a destination for most of their guests—because it had been "the scene of Vanessa's ascension into the person that Abidemi met and fell in love with." The Five Palm Jumeriah hotel offered sweeping views of the Persian Gulf, custom catering, and a stunning ballroom where the couple's black, white, emerald, and gold color palette created the "formal, modern, and sophisticated" look they wanted. Their wedding, which was witnessed by 110 guests on November 25, 2018, incorporated several cultures and traditions. "We wove together elements of Yoruba culture, Anglo-Indian culture, and American culture," says the couple. And although they created an event that spoke to guests from a variety of backgrounds, they stayed true to themselves. "I learned that the focus of the wedding should always be on your shared journey and happiness as a couple," says Abidemi. "Ultimately, that is the point of the whole experience." 01 of 21 The Venue Maria Sundin Photography "We chose the Five Palm Jumeriah Hotel as the venue for our wedding because it was the perfect marriage of our style: modern, energetic, and posh—and the views of the Persian Gulf are idyllic," explains the bride. 12 Things to Consider Before Choosing a Wedding Venue 02 of 21 A Clear Statement Maria Sundin Photography Vanessa and Abidemi worked with their planners from Save the Date on a modern acrylic invitation suite with striking black print. A leafy envelope liner previewed the tropical plants—and the vibrant green shades—the couple used in their wedding-day décor. 03 of 21 A Dream Come True Maria Sundin Photography The first of Vanessa's four outfits of the day was a custom wedding dress in ivory crepe from Bridal Room Dubai; she designed the garment herself. "I did not try on any other wedding gowns because I always knew I wanted to have my dress made," she says. "I loved that the dress was simple, classy, but sexy." 21 Ways to Wear a Boat Neck Wedding Dress 04 of 21 Her Black-and-White Bouquet Maria Sundin Photography Vanessa's bouquet played into the high-contrast color palette. The arrangement was comprised of white anemones accented by emerald green leaves and was tied off with a black-and-white ribbon from Tulipano Décor. 25 Anemone Wedding Bouquets for Every Type of Bride 05 of 21 Women in White Maria Sundin Photography The bride asked one of her bridesmaids, Chika Okafor of TNL Designs, to design and make the long-sleeved, slim-skirted gowns her friends and sister wore. "I wanted the bridesmaids' ensembles to be very similar to my wedding gown," says Vanessa, "therefore we chose the color ivory." 26 Chic Bridal Parties Wearing All-White Dresses 06 of 21 Lux Tuxes Maria Sundin Photography Abidemi and his groomsmen wore black shawl collar dinner suits with tuxedo pants; the groom donned a matching waistcoat and a spread collar French cuff pique bib shirt. 07 of 21 At First Sight Maria Sundin Photography The bride and groom shared an emotional few moments during their first look. "When I first saw Vanessa, I was excited at the sight of my beautiful wife," says Abidemi, "and thankful that we have reached the next stage in our journey through life." 08 of 21 Best-Dressed Guests Maria Sundin Photography Vanessa and Abidemi's guests were just as stylish as they were. The diverse group hailed from all over the world—something that was reflected in the rich, cultural fashion of the day. A Comprehensive Guide to Wedding Guest Attire 09 of 21 Up in the Air Maria Sundin Photography The couple hosted their ceremony on the rooftop of the hotel, where a honeycomb-inspired window and acrylic chairs gave the space a chic, minimalist feel, complemented by the sweeping views of the below city and the water. 10 of 21 Ladies Pulling the Strings Maria Sundin Photography Vanessa and Abidemi hired an all-female string and piano trio to perform during their ceremony; they played contemporary love songs before, during, and after the service. 7 Reasons to Consider a String Quartet for Your Wedding Ceremony 11 of 21 Here Comes the Bride Maria Sundin Photography The trio played Leonard Cohen's "Hallelujah" as Vanessa's uncle escorted her down the aisle. 12 of 21 Saying "I Do" Maria Sundin Photography Abidemi's sister and Vanessa's aunt each participated in the ceremony by reading selections from the Bible, while Binny Baker of HS Celebrants oversaw the couple's exchange of traditional vows. Ellie Goulding's "How Long Will I Love You" played as the couple read each other their promises. Your Wedding Ceremony Etiquette Questions, Answered 13 of 21 A Lucky Break Maria Sundin Photography Despite sunshine that morning, a sudden change in the weather made for one of the most memorable moments of the day: "There was a clap of thunder the moment we were pronounced husband and wife," says Vanessa, "and the skies opened with showers of blessings." 14 of 21 Tropical Escape Maria Sundin Photography Inside the hotel's Vista Ballroom, long gold tables with mirrored tops were paired with black cane chairs for another vivid contrast. Oversized arrangements of leaves and ferns suspended from the ceiling offset the room's dramatic chandeliers. "I wanted the reception to feel like we were entering a tropical forest," says Vanessa. 15 of 21 A Sleek Seating Chart Maria Sundin Photography A simple sheet of black acrylic with white printing gave the couple's traditional seating chart a modern upgrade—and called back to the original acrylic invitations. Lucite Wedding Ideas for the Minimalist Couple 16 of 21 Getting Their Greens Maria Sundin Photography Tall centerpieces drew the eye up thanks to arrangements of sculptural leaves and ferns. On the table below, taper candles added a warm glow that was reflected by the mirrored surface. 17 of 21 An International Menu Maria Sundin Photography Black plates fit the color scheme, while cards tucked into each white napkin did double duty: One side served as a place card, and the other listed the menu. Guests dined on shrimp doka, Nigerian beef stew, roasted chicken, grilled seabream, and an assortments of desserts. 18 of 21 In Your Arms Maria Sundin Photography The newlyweds' first dance took place toward the beginning of the reception, as they circled the floor to Sam Cooke's "Nothing Can Change This Love," a favorite dating back to the beginning of their relationship. "I played this song for Vanessa shortly after telling her I love her," says Abidemi. "The lyrics of the song spoke to me and the song will forever have a sentimental value for us." 70 First Dance Songs from Real Weddings 19 of 21 Emerald Pretty Maria Sundin Photography While a group of African performers entertained guests with dancing and drum music, Vanessa and Abidemi changed out their ceremony attire into traditional Nigerian outfits in emerald green. The couple returned to the dance floor for the "spraying of the money" custom while the crowd danced to "old-school Nigerian music" and Afrobeats. 20 of 21 Sweet on Each Other Maria Sundin Photography After honoring their Nigerian heritage, Vanessa and Abidemi made another quick outfit change before cutting their red velvet cake. Vanessa traded her gown for a Champagne-colored lehenga covered with Swarovski crystals and pearls, and Abedemi chose an embroidered dinner jacket. For the remainder of the evening, Vanessa turned again to a custom gown from TNL Designs. "I wanted something fun and short to stand out from the other dresses," she says. She paired a shimmering cocktail dress with black Jimmy Choo heels and a comfortable ponytail, so she and her new husband could dance the night away with their guests. 21 Reception Dresses Brides Changed Into for Their Parties 21 of 21 Sources Maria Sundin Photography Photography, Maria Sundin Venue and catering, Five Palm Jumeriah Event planning and Stationery, Save the Date Flowers, Tulipano Décor Officiant, Binny Baker, HS Celebrants Music, DJ Aklef Bride's gown, Bridal Room Dubai (ceremony), TNL Designs (reception) Bride's accessories, Etsy (headpiece); Bella Belle (ceremony shoes); Manolo Blahnik (Nigerian traditional shoes); Valentino (Indian traditional shoes); Jimmy Choo (after-party shoes) Makeup, Temitayo Beauty Bridesmaids' dresses, TNL Designs Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit