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Editorial Guidelines Updated on September 20, 2018 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos The Fashions Jessica Antola A California couple pour a whole lot of love -- for handmade details, travel, and each other -- into a heartfelt destination affair at an oceanside family home on Martha's Vineyard. The couple married at the home of the bride's mother and stepfather, actors Mary Steenburgen and Ted Danson. The groom, who grew up in Concord, Massachusetts, felt a special connection to the area as well. Here, the couple take a moment to celebrate their new status. Her dress is by Carolina Herrera; he is wearing a Sam Elsom tuxedo. Get the Look of Lilly and Charlie's Seaside Soiree 01 of 34 The Invitation Suite Jessica Antola Event planner Emily Kelly printed "memorabilia," including nautical-themed invitations, air mail envelopes, and RSVPs scanned from old postcards. 02 of 34 Sweet Signage Jessica Antola A sign at the entrance to the property. 03 of 34 Scenery Jessica Antola A view of the Gay Head Lighthouse, near the ceremony site. 04 of 34 Ring Pillow Redux Jessica Antola The couple's rings were carried in a box inherited from the groom's grandfather. 05 of 34 The Bouquet Jessica Antola Lilly attached her grandmother's locket to her bouquet of anemones and roses. 06 of 34 Ceremony Touches Jessica Antola The programs and toss had a nautical theme. 07 of 34 Processional Jessica Antola The groom was escorted down the rustic aisle by both his parents. 08 of 34 Bride's Processional Jessica Antola One of the bridesmaids provided live accompaniment for the bride's walk down the aisle. 09 of 34 Famous Officiant Jessica Antola The bride's stepfather, Ted Danson, officiated the ceremony. "I loved reading the letters we wrote to each other as vows. Mine was about how we met, our relationship, and how we got there," Lilly says. "But Charlie's was totally not what I imagined. It was all about our future." 10 of 34 The Kiss Jessica Antola Lilly and Charlie embrace during the ceremony. 11 of 34 The Wedding Party Jessica Antola Lilly's stepsister and matron of honor, Kate Danson, watches with Lilly's mother, Mary Steenburgen. 12 of 34 Recessional Jessica Antola "During the ceremony, Lilly's veil was whipping around in the wind. All of a sudden she just said, 'I don't think I need this,' and took it off. It made the day seem much more real," says Charlie. 13 of 34 Antique Trays Jessica Antola Champagne was served on eclectic trays. 14 of 34 Hors d'Oeuvres Jessica Antola Catering, including these mini cocktail-hour bites, were provided by V. Jaime Hamlin & Sons Catering. 15 of 34 Cocktail Fare Jessica Antola Focaccia was set out on boards made from wine crates. 16 of 34 Signature Drink Jessica Antola A guest enjoys a Dark 'n' Stormy. 17 of 34 Cocktails Jessica Antola Blackberry-mint lemonade fills a glass beverage dispenser Lilly bought at Costco. 18 of 34 Welcome Bags Jessica Antola Welcome bags, printed with a friend's artwork, contained local Cape Cod potato chips, Chilmark chocolates, the island's newspaper, and schedules printed to look like telegrams and airline tickets. 19 of 34 Father of the Bride Jessica Antola Lilly's father, actor Malcolm McDowell, with his son Seamus. 20 of 34 Presidential Welcome Jessica Antola The couple with (from left) Lilly's stepsisters Katrina and Kate Danson; brother Charlie McDowell; former president Bill Clinton, a family friend; Mary Steenburgen; and Ted Danson. 21 of 34 Entertainment Jessica Antola Lilly's brother Beckett peeks through a telescope. 22 of 34 Lawn Games Jessica Antola Some young guests played lawn games. 23 of 34 Escort Cards Jessica Antola Postcards of Martha's Vineyard served as escort cards and were displayed with a map of the couple's favorite places. 24 of 34 Reception Tent Jessica Antola "I had no idea the tent would come with flags! It was an amazing surprise," says Lilly. 25 of 34 A Look Back Jessica Antola Family photos were strung together to provide decorative garlands. 26 of 34 DIY Garlands Jessica Antola Lilly sewed garlands, made of circles cut from old book pages, for her chair and Charlie's. 27 of 34 First Dance Jessica Antola The newlyweds share an intimate moment on the dance floor. The Mike Benjamin Band provided the music for the reception. 28 of 34 Parent Dances Jessica Antola Charlie dances with his mother, Adelaide. 29 of 34 Place Settings Jessica Antola Lilly used ticking from Jo-Ann Fabric and Craft Stores on the tables, plus linen napkins stenciled with words and locales significant to the couple; the candle favors were custom "Atlantic" and "Pacific" scents. Dahlias and anemones were clustered in simple glass vases. "I loved getting my girlfriends involved in all the details," says Lilly. "To make these napkins, I had a stenciling party. I've always been very visual and hands-on, so this wedding was a dream come true!" 30 of 34 Menu Mirror Jessica Antola A mirror was decorated to look like a French menu. 31 of 34 Dessert Display Jessica Antola Instead of a cake, the couple served berry pies and tarts from a local baker. 32 of 34 Audience Participation Jessica Antola Little brother Beckett serenaded the crowd with his favorite Elvis Presley songs. 33 of 34 Favors Jessica Antola "I wanted to be really involved from Day One," says Lilly. "Luckily, I have an amazing group of girlfriends whose idea of a perfect evening is to open up a bottle of wine and create something." One such wine-and-craft night involved labeling custom candle favors from Nell's Compass, owned by Lilly and her mother. 34 of 34 Sources Jessica Antola Event Planning and Stationery: Emily Kelly of Unscene Inc.Catering: Jaime Hamlin & Sons Catering (food), Our Market (bar)Flowers: Marlene DiStefano of Island AmbianceMusic: The Mike Benjamin BandRentals: Big Sky Tent & Party RentalsLinens: Party Rental Ltd., BBJ Linen RentalsRestrooms: Dottie's Potties, 508-693-1135Wedding Photography: Tec Petaja, Jessica AntolaGown: Carolina HerreraBridesmaids' Dresses: Woodford & Co.Menswear: Sam Elsom; PradaHair: Jennifer Keeler from Krimson Hair StudioMakeup: Troy Surratt Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit