Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Weddings Dresses & Style Fashion Groom's Style 8 Tips for Suiting Up for a Same-Sex Wedding Be a best-dressed couple on the big day with this advice on coordinating your gay wedding attire from fashion pro John Paul Tran. By Martha Stewart Editors Martha Stewart Editors An article attributed to "Martha Stewart Editors" indicates when several writers and editors have contributed to an article over the years. These collaborations allow us to provide you with the most accurate, up-to-date, and comprehensive information available.The Martha Stewart team aims to teach and inspire readers daily with tested-until-perfected recipes, creative DIY projects, and elevated home and entertaining ideas. They are experts in their fields who research, create, and test the best ways to help readers design the life they want. The joy is in the doing. Editorial Guidelines Published on July 30, 2015 Share Tweet Pin Email Since the ruling of the Supreme Court case allowing same-sex marriage, there has been one question on a lot of male couples' minds: "What do we wear to our ceremony?" Well, guys, you've got a unique set of considerations when choosing wedding attire. The one on top of the list is, "Should we match?" You're joining in marriage to share your lives together-not because you're becoming one person. So I say, "Nah, don't match!" See Memorable Moments From Same-Sex Weddings Instead, consider coordinating. Simple variances in your suits, such as color, silhouette, or how you accessorize, can easily differentiate you from your partner. Here are some easy ways to go from matching to coordinating: Wear the same suit, but in two different hues. Don matching jackets and non-matching pants. Choose shirts in different colors or patterns. Mix up the accessories; for example, one of you wears a bow tie and the other dons a necktie. Sport different tie colors or patterns. Tuck away unique pocket squares. Slip on your own style of shoes. Accessorize with different colors or patterns of socks. See Video Tutorials on How to Tie Different Tie Knots for the Wedding Day Get Your Same-Sex Wedding Etiquette Questions Answered Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit