Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Summer Weddings An Anniversary Party Inspired by the Couple's College Days in Virginia By Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland is a contributing writer with more than a decade of experience as a freelance lifestyle writer. Editorial Guidelines Published on May 19, 2020 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Rachel May Photography Donna and Richard Tadler met just before beginning their sophomore year at the University of Virginia—and 43 years later, they gathered with friends and family at their home in Charlottesville, Virginia, to mark four decades as husband and wife and celebrate that first encounter. At a backyard party, which was dreamed up by their "very organized" daughter, Devon, and "incredibly creative" event planner Jacin Fitzgerald, the couple celebrated with 150 loved ones. They describe the summer event, held on August, 8, 2019, as "relaxed and fun [with] minimal fuss," which was, for the most part, thanks to their daughter. "It was Devon's gift to her father and me—all the planning done with a minimum of agitation for us," says Donna. The couple settled on a subtle UVA theme, "since the school is what brought us together in the first place," says Donna, noting that they used the university's colors—dark blue and orange—to anchor the design. The finishing touches? They incorporated collegiate details like cafeteria trays and school pennant illustrations, too. Though making the guest list came naturally, the couple did run into one challenge in terms of locating those from the pre-Facebook generation: "Tracking down some of the people who were with us from the start of our relationship," says Donna. "Forty years of love, raising children, making a home—we were celebrating all of that by holding a celebration of our friends, who we both feel are what made these last 40 years the success they've been and are." 01 of 14 Naval Flare Rachel May Photography Invites from Southern Fried Paper set the tone for the event by conveying key details in a lighthearted tone—"Please join us for food trucks, libations, dinner, and dancing"—and subtly referencing the couple's wedding year with dates blind embossed in the top corner. Summer-inspired accents included pale orange painted edges and a seersucker envelope liner. The Best Ways to Customize Your Wedding Invitations 02 of 14 A Perfect Match Rachel May Photography Donna wore a Tibi romper in dark blue seersucker and drop earrings from Hughes-Bosca Design, a company owned by two of the couple's close friends. Richard's white plaid dress shirt matched the blue-and-orange color palette. 03 of 14 Cut It Out Rachel May Photography Richard and Donna's original wedding photos appeared throughout the event's décor; a life-size cut-out of a big-day portrait greeted guests at the edge of a stone walkway. The Six Commandments of a Successful Marriage 04 of 14 Go, Team! Rachel May Photography A custom illustration of the couple's dogs holding University of Virginia banners adorned a custom wooden sign; this directed guests around the property. (Variations of the image graced the rest of the paper goods, menus, and cups, too.) 28 Meaningful Ways to Honor a Pet at Your Wedding 05 of 14 Natural Beauty Rachel May Photography Hosting the party at their home was a natural choice, says Donna. "We bought this house as our 'retirement' home, but also as a place for my family to gather. I am from the area and all three of my brothers and their families live here," she says. "My parents are both deceased, so it means a lot to me to have a place for all of us to be together. The minute we walked into this home, we both felt a very strong vibe that this was our place. With all that in mind, it just seemed right for our celebration to be held here." Existing landscaping around the property inspired the rest of the floral design from Beehive Events, which included arrangements of potted plants overflowing with bright foliage and seasonal flowers. In keeping with the laid-back feel of the party, the couple set up comfortable lounge seating under adjustable patio umbrellas and offered lawn games, including giant Jenga and cornhole. 06 of 14 Dining Hall Rachel May Photography The bulk of the party took place under a sperry tent, nestled onto the couple's back lawn. Here's What Every Type of Wedding Tent Looks Like 07 of 14 Comfortable Seating Rachel May Photography Inside, rectangular wooden dining tables and smaller rounds dressed in pale blue linens were set up, offering shade and a view of the central dance floor. 08 of 14 Berry Sweet Rachel May Photography Natural centerpieces with a just-picked look included loosely arranged leaves, flowers, and raspberries. Dark blue runners set off the red accents and white blooms, while continuing the UVA theme. 25 Wedding Bouquets with Berries 09 of 14 Margaritas on the Rocks Rachel May Photography "We made sure to have a specialty margarita bar with three versions made to order," says Donna. Also on offer? A full bar, which served up gimlets—her favorite drink. 10 of 14 Dig In! Rachel May Photography In lieu of a formal dinner, the couple offered a variety of passed appetizers and food stations from The Catering Outfit; the menu included a raw bar, a taco station, and Southern favorites like mini fried chicken sandwiches and pimento macaroni and cheese. A food truck from Sam Jones BBQ served up smoked hog with sides of baked beans, sweet potato muffins, and slaw. Wooden signs listed the options at each station, while custom napkins featured an illustration of the couple's dogs. 20 Raw Bars Perfect for Your Summer Wedding 11 of 14 Tray Chic Rachel May Photography As a playful nod to the couple's history as college sweethearts, guests used classic cafeteria trays—lined with UVA-logo paper—to pick up their choices from the food stations. Wrapped sets of wooden utensils displayed in woven baskets also included the personalized artwork. 12 of 14 What's on Tap Rachel May Photography Richard's favorite local beers—all on tap from Tap Truck NC—were served out of a 1954 Ford panel truck. Mobile Bars and Food Trucks That Can Roll Right Up to Your Party 13 of 14 Love Is Sweet Rachel May Photography On the dessert table, a photo of Donna and Richard during their 1979 cake cutting was placed by an assortment of treats, including a reproduction of their wedding cake and trays of bite-sized cupcakes. Anniversary Photos That Prove Lifelong Love Is Real 14 of 14 Sources Rachel May Photography Photography, Rachel May PhotographyEvent planning, Jacin Fitzgerald EventsCatering, Catering Outfit (food stations and margaritas); Sam Jones BBQFlowers and rentals, Beehive EventsStationery, Southern Fried PaperMusic, Party on the MoonBar Service, Beer Run (beer kegs); Tap Truck NCLinens, La Tavola Fine Linen RentalTent, Skyline Tent Company Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit