Visit Martha Stewart Weddings Real Weddings Wedding Styles Seasonal Weddings Fall Weddings A Blush, Slate, and Plum Color Palette Defined This Wedding in the Blue Ridge Mountains By Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland Blythe Copeland is a contributing writer with more than a decade of experience as a freelance lifestyle writer. Editorial Guidelines Published on March 6, 2020 Share Tweet Pin Email Trending Videos Kati Rosado Photography In 2009, Lee met Marcus, a clinical case manager from a local nonprofit, when they were assigned to work with the same student in Washington, D.C. (she was a high school special education teacher with Teach for America). "Though our friendship wouldn't blossom into love until 2011, this early experience instilled in us a shared respect for one another and a commitment to work in the public sector," says the couple. Nine years later, they found themselves engaged and planning a wedding for their 135 guests; they chose Hotel Domestique in Travelers Rest, South Carolina, as the destination for their October 26, 2019, celebration. "In addition to the picturesque setting, we appreciated that the hotel provided a welcoming and comfortable home base for out-of-town guests to relax and enjoy themselves over the long weekend," explain the bride and groom. A color palette of natural tones accented with mauve, rose, blush, slate, and plum created a "painterly" aesthetic for the celebration. "The overall style was organic, minimalist, approachable luxury, with a European vibe inspired by the venue," they say. But the couple's main focus was their guests. "Our aim was to create a moment that both honored the deep love that we share for one another and also invited our closest loved ones into that experience," says Lee and Marcus. "Through the ups and downs of life we have had an incredibly supportive, diverse, and brilliant team of family, friends, and colleagues cheering us on—it was important to us that they have a memorable and enjoyable experience alongside us during this celebration." 01 of 21 Rosy Chic Kati Rosado Photography Lee and Marcus chose the "Sea Froth" invitation suite from Creo Studio at Minted, adding custom gold leaf for an opulent accent. "The suite incorporated the color palette and captured the balance of modern simplicity and elegance we incorporated into the entire event," says the couple. 02 of 21 A Dream Design Kati Rosado Photography The bride worked with designer Tara Strobach to create a custom Anne Barge wedding dress with a hand embroidered corset bodice and a fit-and-flare skirt. "Working with Tara was a once-in-a-lifetime experience," says Lee, who, along with her mother, aunt, and best friend, spent a weekend in Atlanta creating her dream gown in Strobach's studio. "It was a whirlwind creative jam where we conceptualized the whole thing from top to bottom, and it will go down in history as one of the most special weekends I've spent with the women I love." From Start to Finish: Here's How Wedding Dresses Are Made 03 of 21 Bold Blooms Kati Rosado Photography Lee carried an asymmetrical bouquet from Kara Nash Designs, with deep berry-toned blooms that set off garden roses, dahlias, ranunculus, and lisianthus in shades of white, ivory, mauve, and blush. 04 of 21 Blush and Blue Kati Rosado Photography She requested that her bridesmaids—including her junior bridesmaid—each choose their own dress from Jenny Yoo for BHLDN, creating a colorful collection of blues and pinks that coordinated with the flowers and décor. 28 Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses from Real Weddings 05 of 21 Pretty in Pink Kati Rosado Photography The couple's three nieces wore twirl-ready dresses with pink tulle skirts from Nordstrom and mini white jackets. 06 of 21 Hero of the Day Kati Rosado Photography Marcus put his own stamp on a slate blue suit from Jos. A. Bank with a vest that included the rich purple of the wedding day color palette, and—as a "huge comic book fan"—socks featuring his favorite characters (he also gifted pairs to his groomsmen). 07 of 21 Boys in Blue Kati Rosado Photography The groomsmen wore suits that matched the groom's, but Marcus opted for a lighter tie in contrast to their fig-colored ones. 29 Stylish Groomsmen from Real Weddings 08 of 21 Only Have Eyes for You Kati Rosado Photography Sharing a private first look before the ceremony was a priority for Lee and Marcus, who posed on a hillside overlooking the mountains. "I thought she was just beautiful," says Marcus. Says Lee, "This quiet, intimate moment was quite easily our favorite part of the day. Nothing can accurately capture how we felt when we saw one another—that moment represented not just the day but the years of growth, love, challenges, and joy that has brought us to where we are today." 09 of 21 At the Altar Kati Rosado Photography "The floral design for the altar area of the ceremony was organic, yet structured as a semi-circle—a beautiful 'meadow' installation designed as if growing up in a natural, yet sculptural way," shares the couple. A Wedding Ceremony Trend We're Loving: Grounded Floral Arches 10 of 21 Father of the Bride Kati Rosado Photography After the family took their seats to Pachelbel's "Canon in D" and the groom and groomsmen entered to Eric Clapton's "If I Could Change the World," Lee's father walked her down the aisle as musicians from Collective Music Solutions performed Frank Ocean's "Thinkin' 'Bout You." 11 of 21 Family Matters Kati Rosado Photography Lee's brother officiated the wedding, leading the couple through a ceremony that "incorporated spiritual and contemplative moments and included both Christian and literary readings." Lee and Marcus personalized their vows with thoughtful additions. "We included some favorite memories coupled with thoughts about our commitment to one another and admiration for each other," says the duo. "As always, we tried to balance humor and sincerity." 12 of 21 Happily Married Kati Rosado Photography Marcus and Lee incorporated lavender throughout the wedding, including packets for guests to shower them with as they left the ceremony. A sticker on each container reminded guests that the herb "represents love, devotion, and luck—offering the promise of a new adventure." Instead of favors, guests also received a sprig of lavender with a card detailing the couple's donation to the Sudden Cardiac Arrest Foundation—an organization they chose because Marcus is a survivor of the condition it supports. How Throwing Rice Became a Wedding Tradition 13 of 21 So in Love Kati Rosado Photography After the ceremony, guests moved to the hotel lobby for apple cider old fashioneds and small bites as the newlyweds posed for portraits. They used this time to reflect on their married life ahead. "Enjoy the ride and process," says the couple. "Even in the midst of excitement, don't forget your true purpose—furthering your commitment to one another." 14 of 21 Dinner al Fresco Kati Rosado Photography At the reception, a clear tent with open sides and white draping allowed guests to enjoy the views of the mountains at sunset, while lanterns strung with greenery lit the ceiling. Long wooden tables, covered rounds, and gold chairs created an elevated garden party atmosphere, and a white dance floor on the pebblestone ground gave guests space to party. 28 Tent Decorating Ideas That Will Upgrade Your Wedding 15 of 21 On Top of the World Kati Rosado Photography The couple chose sheer runners and floral garlands to decorate the center of the long tables, adding figs and grapes for texture and color. Background views of the trees and hills showed off the location's best features. 16 of 21 Flower Power Kati Rosado Photography On the round tables, centerpieces in low golden vessels overflowed with the same mauve, peach, blush, ivory, and deep-plum blooms as the bouquets. Votive candles added a cozy twinkle after dark. 17 of 21 Time to Eat Kati Rosado Photography Ivory plates, gold flatware, and tall taper candles added elegance to the bare wooden tables. Menus detailed the meal of pear and fig salad, herb roasted chicken, braised short rib, roasted Brussels sprouts, butternut squash ravioli, and roasted potatoes. The Prettiest Place Settings from Real Celebrations 18 of 21 Romantic Glassware Kati Rosado Photography Blush-colored goblets added a touch of femininity to the tablescapes. 19 of 21 The New Mr. and Mrs. Kati Rosado Photography For their first dance, Lee and Marcus chose Jackie Wilson's "Higher and Higher." "We've always felt that we were better together and that we truly make one another more of the kind of people we want to be," says the couple. "This song captures that sentiment perfectly." 20 of 21 All Night Long Kati Rosado Photography The dancing lasted well into the evening. To keep energy at a high point, sweets were served. Along with a two-tier wedding cake, dessert included a "Pittsburgh cookie table" put together by Lee's family. "My aunts and mother lovingly and carefully crafted hundreds of homemade cookies and transported them to South Carolina for the special day," says bride. 21 of 21 Sources Kati Rosado Photography Photography, Kati Rosado PhotographyLocation, Catering, and Cake, Hotel DomestiqueEvent Planning, Beckon EventsFlowers, Kara Nash DesignsVideography, Elevated Eye FilmsStationery, MintedMusic, Collective Music SolutionsRentals, Berbank Events; Industry Event Rentals; Professional Party RentalsBride's Gown, Veil, and Shoes, Anne BargeHair and Makeup, Cotton Rouge & Co.Bridesmaids' dresses, Jenny Yoo for BHLDNFlower Girl Dresses, NordstromGroom and Groomsmen's Attire, Jos. A. BankLighting, Professional Party RentalsTransportation, Southern ValetEngagement Ring, PenelliBelleWedding Rings, Beeghly and Keim Jewelers Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Tell us why! Other Submit