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Exclusive! Go Inside Margo & Me's Jenny Bernheim's Dreamy Wedding in France

December 21, 2015
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The blogger behind the fashion site Margo & Me and her lensman beau celebrated the joy of living and loving in classic style.

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Though she may love all things cutting-edge and fresh off the runway, fashion and lifestyle blogger Jennifer Bernheim, of Margo & Me

, describes herself and her husband, film producer, director, and photographer Frederick Cipoletti as "old souls" at heart. When, after five years of dating, it came time to plan their wedding, there was no question that it would be black tie and have the feel of another time. In fact, they had just the place in mind: a historic château in France.

What drove this Los Angeles duo to head to—and wed in—such a bygone, bucolic setting? In part, it was their engagement bash. Two hundred guests dressed to the nines, dancing, dining, and drinking at the Sunset Tower Hotel, in West Hollywood, made for an unforgettable party, but also one that had the hosts socially swamped. "The next morning we realized we'd hardly seen each other all night," recalls Jenny. "We felt an intimate destination wedding would let us focus on the moment—and each other."

The idea of a French fête also had sentimental value; Freddie had proposed over rosé and baguettes in a Parisian park while they were on vacation in 2014. Plus, throwing an event in Europe made planning an adventure in itself, as they hit the road, driving through the French countryside to choose from among eight different, but equally stunning, castles. "That château-hopping was a fantasy come true," says Jenny. In the end, Château d'Esclimont, a turreted, moated castle built in the 1500s on 150 acres of forest, lakes, and gardens about an hour outside of Paris, "just stole our hearts," she says.

It also inspired the style of their regal celebration. "We looked at hundreds of antique French crests," says Jenny, as a starting point for their own, which was engraved on invitations and embroidered on dinner napkins. The nuptials on July 25, 2015, were just the highlight of a fun weekend that began with a boat ride on the Seine to welcome their 60 guests, giving the pair plenty of time to spend with them. After the Christian vows came cocktail hour on a stone bridge over the moat, and dinner in a lakeside tent that ended with an explosion of fireworks. Happily, at this party there were multiple moments the couple enjoyed together. The most special took place just before the ceremony, when the bride emerged from a vintage car, took her father's arm, and headed down the aisle toward the château doors. "I could only think about getting to the end and holding Freddie's hand," Jenny recalls. "As I walked, our eyes locked and nothing else existed."

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Guests received passport-inspired booklets asking them to "Save-the-Weekend" for the destination affair in France. Along with outlining four days of events, the pamphlet introduced the couple's custom crest, which was foil-stamped on the front, and the wedding's signature shade. "The colors of our wedding were inspired by all of the things that we love about France," says Jenny. "We started with French Blue as our main focus; on our previous trips to France, we kept seeing this color in the Parisian doors and throughout the countryside. Building on this, we wanted to complement the soft tone with a metallic. Gold was an obvious direction as all of the architectural elements throughout Paris are gold."

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The Stationery

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The invitations by Jonathan Wright and Company featured rounded edges and a mix of black letterpress and gold engraving. An illustrated map detailed the capital and its surroundings. Everything was bound with a velvet ribbon and mailed in a calligraphed envelope with vintage stamps.

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Welcome Baskets

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Upon arrival, each guest received a straw bag with a baguette, cheese, macarons, sparkling water, a picnic blanket, a list of the couple's favorite local spots to "eat, drink, and be merry," and a French translation card for essential words like kiss, thanks, and coffee with milk.

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Gifts for the Girls

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Jenny gave bridesmaids lace-trimmed French blue robes from Cloud Hunter embroidered with their initials, and matching sleep masks that were customized with the phrase "en France." Her own getting-ready robe matched her attendants', but was a cream color befitting a bride.

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The couple had linen handkerchiefs embroidered with each groomsman's initials to give to Freddie's guys on the big day. The groom carried one as well.

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The First Look

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Before the ceremony, the couple met on the grounds of the Château to share their first look and take portraits with photographer Polly Alexandre. Recalling the first time he met Jenny, Freddie says, "from the moment I first laid eyes on her, I thought she was the most beautiful person I'd ever seen."

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Their Fashions

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Before their vows, Freddie and Jenny soaked in the fairy-tale setting of the château, situated between Versailles and Chartres. The groom wore a Saint Laurent tuxedo, and the bride a lace gown and long veil by Pronovias.

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Inside the Château, Jenny took a few minutes for bridal portraits in her Pronovias lace ball gown, a princess style that fit right into the castle setting. Jenny's grandmother wore blue gloves to her wedding in the '50s, so Jenny had a piece of one sewn inside her dress along with her own wedding date for her "something blue."

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A White Bouquet

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Jenny's all-white bouquet of garden roses, peonies, sweet peas, and scabiosa was tied with a raw silk ribbon in the day's signature color.

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The Bride's Accessories

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The bride's day-of accessories included her something borrowed (the XIV Karats bracelet she spotted on a visit to her jeweler to pick up the wedding rings). She also wore her engagement ring and carried a Jimmy Choo clutch. She considered diamond earrings set in platinum from XIV Karats, shown here, but ended up going with her something old (the diamond earrings her grandparents gave her on her 16th birthday). 

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In Her Shoes

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Not only does Jenny love Freddie with all her soul, but with all her soles, too; her bridal Jimmy Choo sandals were stamped with a sweet sentiment in gold.

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Champagne-Colored Bridesmaids' Dresses

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Each of the bride's attendants wore a different blush or champagne-colored Bhldn gown.

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The bride took a family portrait with her sister, parents, and brother.

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All Together Now

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The groom's side: The couple took a portrait with Freddie's parents and sister. Jenny and Freddie felt it was important to honor their parents, grandparents and great grandparents in some way during the wedding, so they framed all of their wedding photos and placed them around the guest book for everyone to view. "We spent two weeks before the wedding in Paris sourcing frames," says Jenny. "That was a really exciting part of the lead up to the big day. Scouring through vintage markets in Paris is my dream come true."

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A Classic Car

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The bride arrived in a retro ride: a Rolls-Royce decorated with an ivy and hydrangea garland.

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The Ring Bearer

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The ring bearer, wearing a tuxedo by Neiman Marcus, carried the rings down the aisle. 

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A lace-trimmed linen ring pillow was embroidered with the couple's crest.

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The Ceremony Décor

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For the ceremony, Flowerjugs created an arch out of white birch poles, then covered them in olive branches and white hydrangeas and garden roses, interspersed with a few blue hydrangeas.

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The Ceremony

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The couple opted for traditional tunes played by a string quartet during their vows. The processional was "Air on the G String," by Johann Sebastian Bach, the bride entered to Pachelbel's "Canon in D," and the newlyweds recessed to Mendelssohn's "Wedding March." They shared their first dance to "Opus 23" from the Marie Antoinette soundtrack.

Jenny and Freddie exchanged vows under an arch of white birch boughs covered in olive branches, hydrangeas, and roses. "Something the pastor said while marrying us was so beautiful it will always stick with me: 'Fall madly in love and never recover,'" Jenny says of a particularly memorable moment.

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Post-vows, guests tossed lavender from linen pouches stitched with the pair's insignia.

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Three Little Ladies

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Along with her seven bridesmaids, Jenny had two junior bridesmaids and one flower girl in her wedding party. The girls wore dresses by David's Bridal and a little something extra crafted by the bride: "I made each of the embellished ivory satin belts," says Jenny.

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The Newlyweds

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Jenny and Freddie paused on a stone bridge, which was lined in floral arrangements meant to look as if they had naturally grown on the site.

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Floral Touches

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The florist tucked hydrangeas, roses, and greenery next to the low stone walls of the bridge.

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Photos Around the Chateau

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The pair took photos on the grounds of the Château d'Esclimont, which was the first of eight castles they visited during a venue-scouting road trip. "The grand style of the chateau made it undeniably the most breathtaking of them all," says Jenny. "The property truly stole our hearts."

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A View from the Bridge

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The backdrop for this portrait: the stone bridge crossing the river. The cocktail hour took place in front of the castle before guests made their way to the reception tent next to the property's lake. 

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Cocktail Hour

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At cocktail hour on the bridge spanning the moat, partygoers sipped vodka infused with honey-lavender.

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The Escort Cards

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Guests found their seats with the help of calligraphed escort cards adorned with wax seals.

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